How to Handle having Attachment Issues? Any advice would help?

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How to Handle having Attachment Issues? Any advice would help.?

I'm 27 and I have a fear of getting close to people, dating and making friends. Its a struggle I always Drive people away by bing clingy or I purposefully mess it up. Its not just clingy, its also avoidance of people, I assume crazy thoughts there out to hurt me, I trust no one. This is becoming a major problem in my life I have little friends and have been single 3 yrs. My parents divorced when I was 8 my father was had issues when I was younger beat my mother, drank and did drugs, many times when...

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Hi, Have you considered looking into counseling or therapy? It sounds as though the issues in your childhood...

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Desperate for advice about workplace issues. Long, but please try to help me!?

I work for a place that cares for the disabled. My boss has been targeting me for 6 months. She favors employees she likes, and critizes those she likes, mostly staff who have been there longer than she has. But this is just the beginning. I was hired...

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Insecure Attachment in Relationships - resources please.

My marriage can be very good, but it can also be very challenging, and has been particularly so in the past few months. Based on our interactions, I've been reading up on attachment and suspect that we both struggle with different types of insecure attachment...

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Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson. I know I keep recommending this book, but it's the only resource I...

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Please help me figure out what to do with the rest of my life.

I'm at a point in my life where progress has stopped and I need to make some decisions about how to move forward. I can't keep doing what I've been doing and I could use some advice on new things to try. Difficulty level: late 30s emotional wreck in...

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I don't think you should necessarily look for the right job, I think you need the right organisation...

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Can we avert disaster? (mental-illness-legal-issues filter)

My adult brother with various mental health issues (living at home with my parents in the Chicago area – near north suburbs) keeps going off and doing self-destructive...and illegal stuff. It’s getting worse, and it...

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shelbaroo, I wish you luck in finding a way to "out source" your brother's care, but unless...

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How can I deal with lingering feelings of blame and attachment following the end of a long-term relationship?

I was with my boyfriend for 3.5 years and we lived together for much of that time. We had built a home and a family (albeit a two-person family), but two months ago he left me. On paper, I'm doing really well. But I still struggle with blame and attachment...

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I feel like if I cut him off for a protracted period of time, I'll just be hurting him again. I see...

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Need advice - apartment neighbor?

I need a bit of advice on how to handle a neighbor in my apartment building. I've been living here a few years and have known her on a very basic level for about that long. She seemed to be about 27 years old and fairly normal. Occasionally we would...

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You say you have already "recommended that she seek a therapist just to help her learn to cope...

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Work related issues as an attachment student?

i'm currently doing my legal attachment as a 3rd year law student at my uncle's law firm. my cousin sister also happens to work there. my cousin sister is 6 years older than me and is already a lawyer working for my uncle. my uncle once promised my father...

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When she is mean to you act like she didn't bother you and be real nice to her don't matter how mean...

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I don't know how to help him or myself

My boyfriend of 8 years just had what looks very much like a manic episode. It involved him doing incredibly stupid, dangerous stuff with alcohol that got him arrested. He's out of jail now, he's in touch with a lawyer... So, the legal stuff is as settled...

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Okay, I really need help with this thing that happend at drivers edge..advice/help? ?

so I have posted this 3 times but I would like some more help/answers please on Thursday at drivers ed I was freaking out b/c earlier that day on my drivetime (we can have drive times with any of the 3 instructors...2 guys and a girl. the lady is the...

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The girl driver ed teacher won't ask you what happen. Trust me. She might tell you that you can talk...

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