Why we can never hurt the one who has hurt us...?Why..? What stops us from doing it back to them...?

Because we know that spewing even more hate as a response to hate is not the right way to solve anything. We know the world needs more love so we try to contribute to that. Also I think we simply know better. but if people are constantly hurting you, you shouldnt be around them. You shouldnt be friends with them. Sure we all make mistakes and get into fights and piss off the people we love in one way or another, but if it becomes a typical thing and happens alot. its simply best to be apart.

All that means is that you are a better person than they will ever be. You care more about people than they do and you do not get anything out of hurting them. That makes you a good person. Don't question it when you do the right thing. When someone hurts you and you do not hurt them back, it is called taking the high road. They took the low road and brought pain to a good person who didn't deserve it. You live by higher standards and your life will be fine. The hurt will not kill you. You will learn to choose friends more carefully as you grow.

Because you care that much...revenge is never the answer...love is the greatest gift giving to man...

our days with them and our love to them

Two wrongs never make a rights? revenge solution none then the other person who did you wrong can't lean from they're mistake if you display the same behavior pattern! that way they'll think it is ok to hurt others. The best way to show revenge is thought the act of love and kindness that will hurt them the most.

we cant hurt them because we cant see them hurt. They may hurt us but we wont be able to see them like that. we cant see their eyes filled with pain. We thought they were our friends but they hurt us. we cant hurt them because we went through a pain we dont want them to have. i do that a lot. my friends hurt me feelings sometimes but i never hurt theres because i dont want them to have the same pain i had. oh well they hurt me its ok. but why hurt them back. As they say whats going to be the difference between us then? They will find out that they did the wrong thing..... i just never have the courage to hurt them. thats just me.. its a bad thing sometimes.... edit:oh ya great question :)

we dont wish to hurt them coz once they made us happy and we liked them or becoz we dont want to take revenge and prove that we r equal to them...our character is good and it's better this way....

no idea..woundering the same

i dont have a problem with teaching a lesson in return