How do you handle someone who attacks you for making an innocent comment on someone else's FB page?
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I have noticed that sometimes I may make a simple comment or ask a question on a friend's FB page and one of their friends decides it is an insult to them and goes on the attack using that person's FB wall as a forum to suddenly attack my character. Has anyone else had this problem? How did you deal with someone attacking your comment or question and acting as though you were somehow insulting them? I asked a friend a question about her delivery experience from a store and explained that I haven't heard any good things about delivery from anyone else from that company. Then one of that person's FB friends decides to take that as a personal insult against her husband and attack me in the same wall post , just because her husband USED TO be a delivery man for that company. I feel as though I can't even ask innocent questions on other people's FB pages without some nut case, who doesn't know me, attacking my question or comment. People seem to forget FB typing does not have a tone and they shouldn't make negative assumptions about people.
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Answer:
It is not your fault that some people are miserable and some are just looking for an opportunity to cause drama to feel better about themselves. I do not like facebook for that reason: it leads to misunderstandings and everyone is in your business and you get to know everyone's business even if you do not care for them.' There are several remedies. Next time, use the "private message" button to communicate certain topics and use the unsubscribe button so you do not get to see everyone gossip and viceversa. Call me old school, but I rather pick up the phone and have some privacy when discussing my matters. I never comment on anyone's stupid crap and do not leave comments that is not anyone's business on a public page. Good luck
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ignore her.. this is pretty basic and simple, but the psychology behind being ignored can be very effective at making a person feel insignificant. especially for attention seeking types who like to start fights online. i know it can be tempting to respond but since you don't really know this person i think it's best to ignore in this case.
Be the bigger person and just ignore it. This avoids starting pointless, time-wasting arguments.
Nguyen
If someone does that to me, I stand up for myself, and tell the person off who told me off. Explain to that person that you were just asking your friend a simple question, and that your sorry if that you offended them if you want to be friendly about it, if not tell them off. Good luck!(:
G
maybe you can block her
Pearl L
Would it not just be easier to block the person who gets all worked over something like this?
Orla C
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