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• What to do if a falsified protection order was filed against you? So here are the details: I have an ex boyfriend from 5 years ago, we sort of stayed friends up until Feb of this year..but I've dealt with his crap for 5 years on and off again, harrassing me, ruining friendships, stalkng me, always having to be friends with the people I was friends with, and then making up lies and starting accusations and rumors.....So I finally had enough with him this October, and put a Temporary Protection of Harrassment order on him...He was not impressed with that...and then this past week My ex best friends (lets call my ex best friend *Julie) mother was up for a visit, and the ex bff and her mom did NOT get along at all, and my ex boyfriend and *Julie's mom got in an argument because he is mouthy and does not care about authority at all. He is 19 and very immature and is all talk...so this thursday (11th) I was driving *Julie's mother to the airport to fly back home..and she decided it'd be funny to send a facebook comment to my ex boyfriend saying "Im on my way", of course he got all afraid, and left the house, leaving his current gross girlfriend (who basically tried to steal *Julie away from me) at the house to wait for us...in the meantime, we never actually went there seeing as how I have a protection order on him, I dont want anything to do with him and dont wanna be anywhere near him..Im not stupid....we were actually on the highway headed down towards the airport....well later on that day, my ex boyfriend and his gf - I guess their house got "broken in to" and I was the "prime suspect" because of what had been said earlier that day by *Julie's mother..which didnt involve me at all, other than I was driving her to the airport....And while I was at work last night, 2 officer's showed up and served me with POH papers from my ex boyfriends girlfriend, which is kind of funny because *Julie & my ex boyfriends girlfriend came into my work earlier that day to check *Julie's schedule (she also works with me). So if the girlfriend put a POH on me, why would she come in minutes before where she knows she shouldnt be....hmm..okay...so anyways the point is....the whole report was FALSE! not a single thing in there was true, and part of it had nothing to do with me, but since *Julie & her mother hadn't gotten along *Julie went along with it and was angry with her mother and they all put the blame on me, One of the statements was :"I was home while my boyfriend left the house to go get some food and I heard a vehicle drive in, so I look out the window and it was (lets call myself Hannah) Hannah's van. (Thats funny, because I was 50 minutes away at the time) Hannah was driving a friends mother to our place so they could harass us and cause a confrontation but considering Hannah has a protection order against my boyfriend and the mother hates me and my boyfriend, I decided not opening the door when they knocked would be the best idea and that way they didnt know I was home. After that the mother called her daughter and said that she was going to "set it straight and kick our ***" (WHICH SHE NEVER DID! I was in the car when the mother was talking to *Julie) And somehow while I was gone I was yet again, 50 minutes away, and I supposedly "broke into the house" and didnt take anything. I'd love to know HOW I did that, when I have witnesses who know where I was up untl 10 PM that night!? So my question is, what do I do about it, how to I notify that this is all false and prove this is all false, and can I put a poh order on her for filing a false report? What can be done. I am trying to gather evidence as much as possible...*Julie's mom cannot make it up here for the set court date, but said she would call in or write a letter..is that possble? I am very furious right now, while at the same time it is slightly comical that they are trying this. I have never done anything in my past before that would even make me look like a suspect to anyone for any kind of crime. I have no criminal history at all. They are just trying to get back at me for putting one on my ex boyfriend, and thats one way he can get his revenge is by having his gf put one on me and ruin another friendship..He was succesful. 2 in a row now..... Any suggestions or feedback?

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  Seven ways to get your ex boyfriend back will surely be of help to you, let's examine the methods below. 1. Breakup Reflection: take the time to figure out what caused the breakup. Be honest with yourself, can you pick areas where you were at fault, is there something you could have done better, is there something you can still change? Sometimes people get comfortable in their relationships and let themselves go and all it takes to repair this problem is to discover what it is and make a change. 2. Never Take Your Looks For Granted: do you make an effort to dress up for your ex boyfriend, or are you too comfortable around him for that now? If you used to dress more nicely and perhaps more provocative, consider going back to that. If you dress to impress, he may find himself wanting you back. It works, just look good the way he likes it. 3. Do not tell him you want him back: no matter how tempted you are to say this, refuse. The odds are, he is missing you too. Play a little bit hard to get and let him remember why he misses you and wants you back. Whatever you do don't overplay this card, as it could have disastrous consequences for you. 4. The 'Ignore Him' Approach: force yourself to be a bit laid back and confident when you are around him. Do not stress yourself out worrying about talking things through with him. Most guys prefer girls that know what is best for them. Act like you know he cares about you, but that you're not all together affected by it. The moment he realizes you're getting over him, he may be much more willing to do the chasing. Let him remember how important you are and see what happens. Don't outright ignore your ex boyfriend, but take some of your focus away from him and let him wonder about it. 5. Have Fun Without Him: show him that you can have plenty of fun without him, don't be mean in how you act around your former lover, but show him that you're having a good time with your friends and he may remember why he fell in love with you in the first place, miss time spent with you. 6. Ask Him Out: after you must have formed a game plan, ask him out and use it as an opportunity to show him that you can still have fun together with one another. Don't worry about complicating things by working out the issues now, just show him that you guys can still have fun and watch things reignite accordingly. 7. Communication: As things improve, work on how you talk to him, think about how you talk to him in comparison to how you used to talk to him. Talk to him the same way that you want to be spoken to if you want to reignite a romantic feeling between the two of you. Bring back the "sweet terms of endearment" you guys used when you first fell in love with each other. If this is the man for you, don't give up. There are proven methods to make him love you like never before. Bad mistakes can ruin your relationship for good. To avoid these fatal mistakes, you need proven steps to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him. What you should and shouldn't do can be found at this Helpful Site: http://www.gettingyourexboyfriendback.info/