How to have two careers in life?

What should my life plan be?

• So i'm 24 and im confused about relationships and careers. Right now i feel like neither is going to happen!!! And i'm sorta wondering how i can actively feel like im making progress in those two key areas of my life. Now, i know its hard to know exaclty what my problem is, but i guess i am just looking for some tips/ a game plan suggestion, so i can feeel taht i am actively making progress towards an anticpated, contented and eventual outcome. I only have friends whoa re 24 year olds and we all teh same thing - question what were doing with our lives/what we shoudl do in terms of careers and relationships. ive never been a patient person, so i need to feel like im making progres sor else i feel like im wasting my time.i mean someting must eventually happen. because people grow up , eventually settle in a career , get married (not that simplified) but evenutally it does happen. But i really get confused on how exaclty it happens and what my plan should be to get therel. because right now i wonder how im gonna make it to 30 and to 40. there never seems to be enough hours inthe day. and no matter how many relationship tips i read , thigns dont seem to chagne. again its hard to know exaclty what my problem is but just suggestions. Any idea what my game plan should be with a relatiohship? Relationship wise: im 24 - im not terribel looking, im fun, good hearted. i dont udnersand why im not out dates all the time. i mean not to sound egotisitcal or someting, but i assumed my life at 24 would be alot different tahn it actually is. i average maybe 4 dates in a year :P thats terribel - and a relationship has been years. again id like to feel i was actively out meeting men, buti jsut feel like no one wnats to put themselves out there anymroe these days. Career wise: i have university background ba in a japanese so that shoudl increase my options. but my problem has always been tryign to settleon a career - i never can seem to find a job that fits my characters , strenghts, abilities and requriemtns in temrs of location , salary etc. Anybody out there had this problem of not being able to settle on a career? i mean im not a person who doesnt want to work or soemting. ANd i care about more than myself here - i wanna be able to take care of my parents inhteir old age, i wanna be finaincally indepented etc etc , i just cant seem to settle ona sucessful career that i can feel at least semi-content with. so just wonder if otehrs felt like this and how they discovered themselves in temrs of career Hope soemone can offer advice! dont tell me to concnetreateon others . i do that already. what i want o know is how to look /interepret these two areas of my life - what my outlook should be - and what advice u have for a game plan for tehse two ares of my life - so i feel actively involved/like im progressing to an ultimate goal. PS; in terms of relationship - online dating is not really possible - im overseas - in adition ive tried it before - had an open mind and tried it - but i jsut prefer to do things in person - i find it more interesing that way /prefer it that way i suppose

• Answer:

  you can have a real relationship by the internet if u are really interesting in someone