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How do you handle someone who is so socially off?

How to handle someone who can't take no for an answer?

  • I have a friend who I'm ''best-friends'' with, even though I don't believe in that sort of thing. She always annoys me and pressures me into doing things I don't wanna do, like sleep over her house when it's soooooo boring. but no matter what i say, she carries on and then tells her mum i'm being nasty and then she calls me selfish when I'm not. How can I handle it? Like everyday, I'm pressurized by her. I come back home after a long day out and she texts me saying ''leave in 10 minutes, you're getting your ears pierced, i've booked it for you for 5pm'' and i'm like ''what the hell, i didn't say i wanted it done, you're not my mum so NO'' and she carries on sending unlimited texts ''Plz dont be selfish'' ''plz'' ''Plz'' ''Plzzzz''

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    If I was in that same situation I would think "do I want this person to stay in my life" if you do you should tell her that she can't treat you like that or you will no longer be friends(be confident). If you really can't handle her anymore then end the friendship-you can't have "friends" like that.

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wow she sounds annoying.like how old is she 7? tell her you'll never do anything with her if she tell her mum or annoys u or........................u can tell her "i'm not going too! please stop and i'll think about it if you tell you're mum i won't do anything so shhhh okay?" if she carries on slap her or lock her in a room and say learn your lesson but if she is umm old and annoying then cover her mouth and say SHUT UP! loud it cud care her. then tell her why but this friend is not much of a friend so these might not work hmm... i say ignore her if you don't like her dnt stay with her . you dnt have to listen to HER mum just yours you cud also telll UR mum she'll understand jus don't b her friend i know whatya been through she's a bit of a pain btw hope i helped wiv thiss umm nutcase

Mumsaidnottotell

If I was in that same situation I would think "do I want this person to stay in my life" if you do you should tell her that she can't treat you like that or you will no longer be friends(be confident). If you really can't handle her anymore then end the friendship-you can't have "friends" like that.

Sofia Ramirez

Sounds like she's the one being selfish. Tell her that no means no and if she persists just ignore her.

Desiree

You are allowing her to dictate your life, its only you who can put a stop to it, by saying NO

ohsowhatever

wow she sounds annoying.like how old is she 7? tell her you'll never do anything with her if she tell her mum or annoys u or........................u can tell her "i'm not going too! please stop and i'll think about it if you tell you're mum i won't do anything so shhhh okay?" if she carries on slap her or lock her in a room and say learn your lesson but if she is umm old and annoying then cover her mouth and say SHUT UP! loud it cud care her. then tell her why but this friend is not much of a friend so these might not work hmm... i say ignore her if you don't like her dnt stay with her . you dnt have to listen to HER mum just yours you cud also telll UR mum she'll understand jus don't b her friend i know whatya been through she's a bit of a pain btw hope i helped wiv thiss umm nutcase

Sounds like she's the one being selfish. Tell her that no means no and if she persists just ignore her.

Desiree

You are allowing her to dictate your life, its only you who can put a stop to it, by saying NO

ohsowhatever

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