Hi i was hoping someone could help me with my problem?

I have a problem which i have write in the below lines please help who can help me in this situation?

• i always try to sort out my weaknesses and i always go to build my strengths, from my childhood i use to be a very isolated child with my own values and beliefs i don't have many friend to whom i can say they are my best friend and they will and always help me whenever i need them i just have something like a fans of my qualities they hang out with me because of my qualities or their beliefs that i could be helpful for them in future by whatever mean they thought i don't know whether this is absolutely my problem or i have any thing else which m not getting appropriately................. but the actual condition of my life is i don't have any girlfriend even yet m 23 about friend i have mentioned above it seems i have go from this my awkward or some sort of ugly boring isolated worthless life i don't have any impressive trait i many a time ignore my weaknesses by thinking about any thing good in that person or situation or think about my better status in future and m doing so for a very long time i need help from someone who understand my problem properly because its not possible to tell it more deeply here..................... seeks someones personal or very effective advice i really want to make my weaknesses my strengths or want to eliminate unnecessary stuffs from my self i want to live and don't want to just spend my entire life seeking or just hoping for the best i want that life on which i can be proud of that that's the way i live my life and don't want to spend it just crying please guide me or help me what can i do or what could be done..........

• Answer:

  What is your strengths? What you consider to be strength might be considered to be weakness during different situations, ever heard of the phrase your greatest strength is at the same time your greatest weakness. You problem is not about your weakness it's your inability to face your own so called weakness. You think that your self worth is reduced because you have these weakness. People who always dwell on their own weakness become weaker over time and people who believe that they are strong their weakness will reduce over time because they strive to improve.