Help & Advice Needed With Go Karting?

Guy Help!? Advice is needed!?

• If you guys have noticed, I posted this question a few weeks ago and did get some good advice: Ok I need help. So I met this guy online and to make a long story short we hung out today to get to know each other and 3 hours went by. Things seemed to go well and when it was time to say goodbye, I didn't even look at him I just simply looked at the ground and said "see you later? or at least talk to you later?" he said yeah and then I said bye. (I was so nervous because I never have really gone out with a guy) I feel so bad I did not look up to see what his reactions were. What is the next step? Should I message him and say I had a good time? Or should I wait for him to make the move? Any advice is great! Thanks! many of you told me that he likes me. However, he never texts me or attempts to text me but every time I text him and ask how he his, he says he is just busy. Why won't he start text conversations? I realize we are both in college so we are busy, but I feel like if he liked me he would text me at times. I also can't figure him out because he likes every status that I post on my facebook. I usually only post about my day. I never post any love quotes or anything hinting to a crush. He will also (very rarely (like only once)) joke around on my status. SO my question is does he like me and he is just truly busy or is he not sure whether he is or not? Thanks for your help!

• Answer:

  It's really hard to tell what's going on in your guy's mind just from that little blurb of information, and anyone who says that he likes you or doesn't like you from that is out of their mind. The next move doesn't really matter, as there are no specific rules. When it comes to guys, every single one is a little different, and every one of them has to be played differently. In your situation, I would text him the next day and say something sweet and flirty (but keep it casual!) something like "I had a really great time last night!! We should hang out again sometime!" That way your making a move, but it's a subtle move that many guys don't pick up on for some reason... Ask him to hang out again, and if he says he can't ask for another date. If he says yes, that's a step in the right direction, otherwise, if he's always "busy" then move on, he's not worth it. Try to find a great fit for you, and once you find him, stick with him (it might even end up being your best guy friend!)