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How do you handle someone who is so socially off?

How do you handle someone who is trying to hurt & desecrate the memory of someone that meant the world to you?

  • Why do some people feel the need to try & desecrate someone after they're gone? Why do something so hurtful especially when the person was a good person who hurt no one? :(

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    Some people are insensitive and hurtful to everyone and only think of themselves. I am sadden to read of your loss. I hope your remembrance of times spend with your loved one are good ones. We mourn those that we loved who are no longer with us. That is the way of humans.

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I think I need to know the situation to be able to give you the proper advice.

K-Dawg Spartans Fan

I just ignore them

Ace is team PJD

Very Harshly. That is disrespectful big time as well bad karma.. I have no respect for anyone who would be so low.

HollyPaw

Hi Scooter we have talked of what to do, or what I would do, and in one sense block and ignore can work, but too, in knowin, I think they deserve a good whuppin.

5 ft 7 Texas Heaven

time heals all wounds'

Babybear

You must simply ignore that person. It's best not to involve yourself with someone who doesn't hesitate to demonstrate such obviously tasteless behavior.

Robert O

A normal person would never entertain a relationship with such a monster who desecrates an innocent. Only bad people must be denounced, but not even slandered.

Scooter, We don't have enough facts to give you the precise answer so all I can say is that it depends on the relationship between the deceased and the person supposedly disparaging them. For instance, if it's a parent who passed and the person disparaging is your brother or sister, maybe the very reasons that made the deceased dear to you made your sibling angry. In that case your parent would want you to maintain a cordial if not loving relationship with your sibling. If your sibling starts in, "Ma always said such and such to me" try to divert your sibling like, "come on, you have to miss her barbequed chicken." Then even if your sibling says, "her chicken was terrible" the discussion is on a level that won't be considered "desecration" Try to remember that the deceased might have had many facets to their personality, and something that you held dear might have truly hurt your brother or sister.

mattapan26

This article is sort of humorous, but it's got a lot of truth to it: http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-dealing-with-death/ It's basically an article about dealing with death. In case you didn't get that from the link, lol. Look at number 4. I think it would apply to this question very well, haha.

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