Irrational fear of kissing/being close to somebody?
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I am 19 and just recently got my first kiss. I have always been afraid that I would be bad at it so I just always broke things off with guys before they got too upset with me for not kissing them. I have kissed the guy im dating several times and just recently he "pulled away" first, it's usually me that pulls away or stops the kiss and it freaked me out that he did it this time. I couldn't get up the courage to try again last night and told him that I wouldnt kiss him because he had smoked a cigarette recently (which i find absolutely disgusting) How can i get my nerve back...
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Answer:
Well it would seem like. ....just kiss him would be the answer but you need to get to the root of the issue. I am wondering if someone made you feel dirty if you kiss someone or why you feel like you would be bad at it. I Don't know if you have a fear of rejection. .......or some other issue is going on. I don't think most People would know who stopped their last kiss. Maybe counseling will help sort it out.
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Other answers
Find someone who doesn't smoke. Blech. Or, tell him how you feel. You're coming to a bunch of strangers here. And, if someone doesn't "pull away," you'd be lip locked forever.
Honoria
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