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Whats the nicest way to turn down a guys offer?

  • so i know this guy for a while, like 2-3 years-ish. so before he told me he liked me and things got quite awkward that we stopped speaking. now a year later he wants to take me somewhere to eat or to the moviess >_<. hes a real nice person, but like im the type to stay home or hang out with my 2 main friends. i feel real bad because hes persistant and wants my number too. whats the nicest way to turn him down. see im not the most prettiest or perfect, but he's told me we do come from different worlds and situations. my friend told me to block him or delete him off of facebook, but i feel that is mean. i hate that this is happening again >_<. so please help i need some feedbackkk!!

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    the best way is to tell him whatever u think honestly but u need to choose ur words so as to not hurt his sentiments. tell him that u both can remain best frends and nothing more. Second method=Stay little aloof...dont talk to him often reduce the frequecy of talking or meeting him, and then be very formal and finally it will fizzle out. But maintain a good distance from him

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Make him want to turn you down, so tell him your oral herpes are currently flaring up and it makes chewing painful, when they calm down, you will call him. Or tell him you are not into guys, but if he wants to waste money on you, then you are up for a very expensive meal somewhere nice so bring lots of cash. Or wimp out and tell him you are just not mature enough to date yet so your parents will not let you go out.

Jonathan

the nicest way is to tell him that you recently became involved in a relationship and you just couldnt in good faith go out with him. something like that. That way you are not rejecting him out right and hurt him ,, you just cant get involved with him ,, see ? Thats how i handle women that dog me that i dont want to date .

Mark

You are talking about me? Being on the other end of the boat, I would appreciate it if the girl cut hope of any relationship, because that will help me move on. Sometimes, not being "nice" is the kindest thing you can do for a person.

Sarumanjyukitsune

i think you should say i like you too but as a friend and we have a good relationship and i don't want to ruin it. I said that to one of my best guy friends

Taylor

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