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How to Deal With Fake Former Close Friend? Girls answer please?

• Hello, I'm a college junior and I met this amazing girl in my class. Its been about 4 months since i met her. We quickly became close friends. We had our sweet little moments here and there but she told me she already has a boyfriend. I respect that and I accept that I am only her friend. I still care about her, and treat her like how I use to but the only thing getting under my skin right now is my fake friend that has been dragging me down for years. He pretends that he is a close friend of mine in order try and get close to her. She really thinks that he is my good friend because I didn't tell her that me and that guy got a long history together and hate each other on the inside. He always puts on a front in class by doing nice things to me like offering class question answers infront of her to act like we are cool. Everytime I leave with her after class, he tags along and tries his best to tease her and flirt with her. He knows how I feel about her and he does very dramatic b***ch moves like walk to my table when shes around me, pretend to do a good deed by offering me answers and then flirt with her right in front of me. I care for her and she knows that I like her. I dont mean to be offensive but I know girls love attention, ever since that guy started doing this, my mood has been down and ive been less flirty with her and giving her less attention than I use to. He known me for 7 years and knows my personality and how to been bring my mood down. I'm beginning to drift apart from her. I respect that she has her own decisions and she can flirt with whoever she wants to, but I feel so much pain from this guy. I dont care when other guys try to flirt with her but it hurts seeing someone i know deep down to the core as a bad person trying to get the best of me and maybe the best of her. That guy has backstabbed me many times because I always gave him another chance to be my friend ever since middle school. Its been 7 years since Ive known him and until last year I stopped hanging out/talking to him. But he was randomly in my class this semester and began acting close to me. I try my best to hide set these emotions aside but my heart aches. I try my best to let things go but I feel so much pain knowing that my backstabbing former close friend has been dragging me down for all these years and continuing to do so. I want this feeling to end but I cant think of a way. I cant talk things out with him because he is an indirect person. I want to talk things out and tell him that he is not my friend and i dont want to talk to him, however, hes a drama queen always keeping things down under and doing things behind the curtains. I try to be straight forward and talking to him but he always never answers my questions or lies and pretend he doenst know what im talking about. Me and her and slowly drifting apart. Even though she has a boyfriend, when we are with each other it was magical. We were like a cute couple always having fun and caring for each other. But now that he started doing things and my hate for him has made my actions different. We arent like how we use to be anymore. I miss all the happy cute moments we had when we were by ourselves. Im lost and confused... should I move on? I want to wait for her because shes very special to me and I never felt strongly about someone before? How do I deal with the situation with my backstabbing friend? just let go and let him provide all the attention she needs? She may not be the one for me, but I still care about her alot. I just want her be happy with someone who will treat her right. It may not be me, but I know that it is definitely not my backstabbing drama queen friend. He barely knows her and before he really talked to her, he obsesses over every little detail about her, I dont even know why does he like her at all, i feel like he just likes her because i do.

• Answer:

  "she has a boyfriend" How can you be confused? Until and unless she becomes single, she's off limits to you. Forget her, move on Sorry dude Luck