What's the proper way of passing an argument to NSTimer?

Whats a proper way to feel about this situation with close comrades?

• So I was dating this girl they introduced me 2. Knowing she had a kid with this dude was still in love with and that after they split she started seeing my one friends soon to be bro in law. So I meet her we go out 3 months she ends it all weird on me and I get mad and talk smack to her. I findout my friend Cesar who got married wife was cheating on him before they got married cause my ex told me so I told him. He stops talking 2 me....... 2 years have passed I hear she lost weight and LEFT HIm caus eshe was CHEATING ON HIM! I reach out to him on myspace with a message and he doesnt respond to anything I said and I didnt say anything about what happen with his girl just asking him whats up. NO RESPONSE! SO I FEEL SCREW HIM!!! NO LONGER MY FRIEND! Juan, his pregnant girlfriend is the one who got into the way of me ALL drunk about to fight another friend. I ddint even know what was going on even got in trouble by security for smokin weed in the bathroom and I suaully dont do stuff like that. So im about to fight and shes in my way and i juss pushed her I guess. Then the fight got broke up we all left together. My freiend juan, the girl I pushed and another guy. We get back to his house I call my mom and get a ride cause im wasted. WHY WOULD U GET IN THE WAY IF U R PREGNANT OF 2 GUYS ABOUT 2 FIGHT???? Juan and I talked for sometime and even told me Im like his lil brother. So we kept talking until he moved to texas. While he was in texas we talked. I heard about a year ago he moved back into my area and he has not once reached out, called or even added me on facebook. I feel as if these guys are no longer my friends. I feel if it was such a big deal 1. Why didnt juan try and fight me? and 2. Why didnt she file a police report? neither happened but I dont consider them my friends anymore. Am I wrong to let it go? ive known juan and cesar since I was 10 and im 26 now.

• Answer:

  Umm. No, they are obviously not speaking to you anymore and when that happens it usually means they don't want to be friends anymore. Time to let go of the past and move on to the future.