Is female the more dominant gender?

Is there a female out there who is non gender, 3rd gender, epicene, or gender neutral mental hermaphrodite?

• If there is Id really love to meet you. Im soft and fluffy, and can be hard and strong and a lot of fun. But I want a best friend and love and its hard to always have to be "a man", I just want to be able to be with a partner or friend who s the same, no gender. Every time I meet a woman who says she is, when she falls out with me she calls me a typical male. Why do people have to divide us into these categories, and why cant I find a mate who is into equality. What they say and what they do, and behave seem to be two different things! I just want a best mate, for a mate, not a set of gender rules i cant live up to! When people are children they learn from hints given off by their parents or society how a little boy and a little girl should act, and they eventually adapt, because they want to be accepted, they want to be loved and get attention. I never adaped. Are you out there?

• Answer:

  I TOTALLY get what you're saying, because I've felt the same way myself most of my life. I'm a pre-op female to male transsexual, but I don't exhibit the most stereotypical aspects of male behavior. Therefore I never quite fit in with the "butch lesbian" label, and even now, I don't quite fit in with the "straight male" label. Most people tend to think I'm a gay man, and well, *I* don't quite feel I fit THAT label either. I prefer to think of myself as "two spirited" or a "third gender" like you said. I consider it a blessing and a gift to be able to be "gender neutral" and see things from a feminine and a masculine perspective. I've been through the same thing of the girl who says she accepts me for who and what I am, until we have an arguement and then all of a sudden I'm "a typical guy". I hate categories, and I hate being confined to a little box. Didn't we already come out of the closet once? Sometimes twice (if you started as gay and then became trans). I don't want to be shoved back into repression for who I am. I consider myself a gentleman who just happens to be well mannered, educated, and respectful to people..all people. If you wanna chat with me, feel free to look me up. I think we are VERY much on the same wavelength. Sex is between the legs, gender is between the ears :) "I just want a best mate, for a mate, not a set of gender rules I can't live up to"...whoa, how many times have I said THAT to myself!? and I totally agree with you on wanting equality. I told my friend once, "why do we always refer to our significant other as our "better half" or "other half"? I don't want to BE a half, I want to be a WHOLE, and I want my partner to be a WHOLE so that when we come together, we create a bigger WHOLE, not pieces. I believe we should both be independent, but can also come together to compliment each other." So yeah..I'd LOVE to talk to you.