How can i cope with VALENTINES DAY???

maybe you should spend a little time to yourself and take yourself on a 'you' day....thats how i fell better on v day

um... i would rent a love movie that make me feel sexy and beauiful or i would ask someone (who is Single) to go have dinner and a movie maybe a friend you know and i would go up to the man who you trust and tell him ( just let it go and tell him) how you feel and go to a party anywhere nobody should have Valentines day alone or go see a concert that what i would do if i was you

I hear ya. What I am going to do is think of it as just another commercialized holiday & try to focus on the good things in my life right now. I am single right now but I do have hope that sometime soon I'll meet that special person. Try not to let it get to ya. Focus on you. And if you want (& what I might do) is go buy yourself some fabulous new shirt or shoes! Take care!

One of the most fun things that I've seen is a bunch of people did their own version of "Singled Out"...they did an on-site dating show with single people, and they have one date fully paid for together, if they decide to keep going out, good for them...if not, oh well, it was fun.

Go have a drink. Meet other people, he doesn't want you, just move on. he doesn't deserve all the energy you are wasting on him.

Why be jealous of a sentiment that is really meant for everyday. Having one day in which anyone who has someone feels superior is ridiculous. and hurtful and makes you feel like you are different. But remember half these people will be broken up by next year and many will have fights and some will be abused or be abusive. I'm a single woman who has been married 3 times and the last 2 acted like we were going steady. but--my first husband wants to remarry me. so you see what you have today you may not have tomorrow and what you don't have today you may have tomorrow. Keep that in mind and remember it's just a day in which people who are together feel better about themselves but really it should be a day when we are in love with ourselves not other people. If you love yourself more people will love you. So be in love with you on Valentine's day and maybe you will find your tomorrows will have many surprises. I've been together and alone on Valentine's Day and for me they have been the same because everyday was Valentine's Day. Don't be sad, be glad you have yourself and remember we are not made whole by another person, We are made whole by liking who we are so much people think they are crazy for not knowing us. And the best thing is you don't have to be arrogant to do it. If you act open so that everyone feels they can reach you then you find that person who is all yours. Good Luck and Chin up.--ps. You should act like like you are sooooo glad you are free and not tied up with another person on Valentine's Day.

well maybe you can go out with some friends if their not already busy i wouldnt be depressed about something like this someones waiting to meet you and it takes time!!!! im sorry about your ex but thats why hes your ex! you have to take it one day at a time