How can i change my security question and my answer on my yahoo account?

I found this in the help pages: Q: How do I change my secret question and answer? A: Shhh... To change or update your Password Question and Secret Answer, send an email to: [email protected] For security reasons, we request that you send this information from the Yahoo! Mail account associated with the Password Question and Secret Answer. For the Subject of the email, type: Password Question and Secret Answer. In the text of the email, include: Your Yahoo! Mail ID. The ZIP code you gave when you registered for the account (non-U.S. residents, please include country). Your birthdate. The alternate (non- Yahoo!) email address listed for your Yahoo! ID. Your current Password Question and Secret Answer (exactly as you entered them at registration). Your new Password Question and Secret Answer. Please Note: The punctuation, spelling, and spacing of your new Secret Answer are important. We copy the Secret Answer exactly as it appears in your email. When we've received and verified the above information, we'll notify you that the change has been made.

Both my mother, (now deceased) and my son were born on Nov 6,

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