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Why do I always feel anxious?

Why do i always feel ugly?

  • Everytime i look in the mirror, i feel like i'm staring at my worst enemy. I hate it. I always feel ugly. I mean, there are so many pretty girls and I always feel inferior. I always look for things wrong with me. I am not the one to say "Hmm...my best features are..." I always say "eww..why do i have to look like this" When I am with my friends, people always comment to them, "you look so pretty" and I always stand right next to them, and just want to cry. I mean, I know I'm not butt ugly, but sometimes, being just normally ok, is not enough. I need tips or any ways to boost my Self Esteem. Any similar stories would be nice to learn from. *I do not need you guys to lecture me. Do not complain about this being "so annoying" or stuff. I do not need you crap. Either give helpful answers, or don't answer at all. Ok, thanks. Bye -_-

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    I know how you feel. My friends say that I'm not ugly but, for some reason I always feel ugly. It does get irritating when there are super pretty people around and then they make me feel plain. A tip that I can give you is to try and not think about it. I know that probaby doesn't sound like good advice but, it works. When I'm not thinking about those things i'm usually at my happiest.So: 1. Try to laugh more 2. If you still feel unattractive get a haircut or do something that makes YOU feel beautiful(dress up and go have fun with your friends,etc.) 3. Build your self-confidence, you'll feel prettier if your more confident. 4. Go shopping and buy something that looks beautiful on you and wear it and if you get complemented, accept it. Don't say, no I'm not say THANK YOU. These are the things I have learned to do. This is from my own REAL personal experience.

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I would like to recommend this book and some encouragement. I am the baby daughter in my family. I have dark skin and take after my father's side, my other two sisters have light skin and take after my mother's side of the family. My sisters have always received comments on how pretty they were and I sat by and watched all my life and very rarely did I get a comment except for how long my hair was. I was a bit awkward in my early teens and then came into my own beauty as time passed. I even got married and had a child of my own. I would liken myself to a swan. One thing you must understand is that some of the most beautiful people in this world can be some of the most ugly people because of their attitude and outlook on life. I have come across some people that have been not been the hottest but their outlook on life, personality and spirit made them attractive. I said all of that to say this... you must find worth in yourself. If you don't love yourself no one else will. Everyone on this earth has a purpose and is special in some kind of way. It is up to you to find out what makes you unique and special and find worth in yourself. For what it is worth... I believe you are a worth while person and worthy of the love and attention you seek... you just have to believe it.

Black Beauty

Treasure what you have. I, myself, am not so hawt, because I'm fat, but I have a great personality. Side by side, my personality, being funny, wierd, yet smart, I have cool, cute, and hot friends that like me for who I am, not for how I look. Why do you think your friends chose you to be a friend? Think about it.

Chubby In Da Tummy

you have really low self asteem

jas S

work on what u think is "ugly" about u. if u think u have a big nose, try putting on more dramatic eye makeup, so people will notice ur pretty eyes instead of ur big nose... something like that. everybody has something beautiful about them. dont focus and feel bad about the things that u dont like abt urself.. HIGHLIGHT UR ASSETS! whether it be pretty eyes, nice smile (lipgloss), generous cleavage (low cut shirts).. u get the idea. =) stop comparing urself to others. 99% of the time, WE're our own worst critics. other people are actually too busy feeling bad abt themselves to actually be looking/thinking about u. *hugs* hope u feel better soon.

Tintin C

you read HP. find your answers within. ;)

Leea

Just think, plenty of ugly people in this world have achieved great things. Aim to achieve something yourself. You don't have to be good looking to achieve what you want in life. Even though I doubt your even that ugly.

don't worry. we all feel like that once in a while. just be yourself, that's the true beauty of a person :D

tanner

download a pic then take a poll 1-10 then ask your ?

pink dragon

Try to focus on a feature you like, like your eyes or lips, and do make-up that complements that feature. Or do something nice with your hair that will make you feel good about yourself and give you that extra confidence. Focus on things you like and don't be so harsh on yourself! =)

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