What is porous hair?

What can i do to my super ugly hair?

• I used to have healthy and smooth hair, but 4yrs ago, I rebonded my hair and did rebonded it again about once a year. 2yrs ago, I started tying it in a bun because it looked nice when I removed the bun, it looked curly and all. but then when I started doing it everyday, my hair became dry, curly, frizzy, and damaged :( so I continued tying it in a bun so that no one can see my ugly hair. I haven't rebonded my hair for 2 yrs now and I still tie it in a bun. I don't want my hair anymore, I haven't shown my hair to any of my friends. they don't know that my hair is ugly and frizzy. so now, I want to start anew. i'm thinking of relaxing my hair this time, instead of rebonding it again because people say it looks more natural than rebond (but i'm not sure if it will work on my hair). do you think I should relax my hair or rebond it? or do you have any other suggestions? I want my hair to look natural again. like when I was young, I used to have beautiful hair. My friend, she had her hair rebonded and when it grew, it looked natural and does not look rebonded at all. Do you have suggestions so that my hair can result to this, too? pls!!! i sometimes think of shaving all my hair off. i just don't know how what to do with my hair anymore. :( your suggestions can help me big time. thank you so much!

• Answer:

  I have the same problem but my hair dries out all the time and is boff. What i do it get a deep conditioner and but it on your wet hair but a towel round it and leave it to dry natural. Next Wash it out with luke warm water and buy a hair smoother which you leave on and keeping adding a bit each day. Do this for 10 days and after that book in your local hairdressers to have a conditioning treatment and a trim in no, time your hair should be nice again/