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Help!! Daycare problems, this is the second time my child got bitten, what can i do about this?

  • My child is in the one and two year old class and there's this kid who's hyperactive, always causing havoc, he bit my child today, and i want to file charges against this daycare. I'm highly upset because this happened AGAIN, ....i'm so ******* upset, i want to cuss out the mom and the child, i'm really upset, what can i do, please help me

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    I can understand you getting upset but nothing will be done even if you do try to file charges probably would b e laughed out of the place in my opinion. Things like this happen all the time. What you need to do is bring it up the the head person of the day care and tell them you want a conference with the parent & child. Alot of daycares of biting policies, something like after the third time they are kicked out. Something needs to be done & you cant 100% blame the daycare workers they are taking care of other children and when you work and send your child to daycare you are at a daycares mercy. My suggestion is the above. Try to find out if they have a policy on biting and ask what else can be done about this child biting. Also I would make sure that your child isnt the one who is causing the trouble with this child and causing this child to bite your child. Only other suggestion above this is to take your child out of this daycare, if you feel they arent doing their job then it is your job to find your son/daughter a new one where you feel he/she IS being taken care of. I feel a lot of daycares do the best they can but with so many kids even when they are following the guidelines so many kids per adult its so HARD to keep a 100% eye on all of them! I'm a stay at home mom and I can tell you its hard to keep an eye on my 2 yr old 24/7! Good Luck! I hope you can get things resolved soon!

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It's not a class and you end it by removing the child from the center.

!!!!What???

They cannot help the fact the child is biting, this child just needs discipline, the daycare shouldn't be responsible. Calmly talk to the mother of the other child and tell her how this is affecting you and your child. See if she can do something about it. Also talk to the daycare, see if they can keep a watch on your child and the biting child so they can give proper discipline to the child when he bites.

Sammie

And what exactly is the mom supposed to do about her kid biting? Beat the **** out of it? It takes a while for children to learn how to behave properly. I mean seriously, children don't even surpass the intellegience of a pigion until they're FOUR! Please be reasonable. If you are fearful for your child's safety, switch daycares or hire a private nanny, because the only way you are going to solve this problem is by removing your child completely from the company of other children his age, because children at that age bite.

Mom of Marley

I use to work at a daycare and I had the 1 1/2 year olds, so take it from me that it happens all the time. There usually only one person taking care of 9 children. I would be changing a child's diaper and before I knew it, one of them would be doing something wrong. Bites happen all of the time but if it keeps happening try talking to the director about having something done about it. The daycare I worked at had a rule that if a child bites 3 times then they have to go home for 1 day. I understand how upset you are because that is your child but leaving your child at the daycare things happen. When I was a child, I made someone bleed really bad and I couldn't imagine my mother having to go to court for something like that. If it makes you feel better, by the time he gets to the 3 year olds the biting will stop most likely seeing that when they moved me to the 3 and 4 year olds I only had to worry about hitting or kicking. Hope this helps!!

B

Unfortunately there is nothing you can do it is normal for a one to two year old to bite you can ask the daycare to keep your child separate from this child and maybe talk to the parent of the other child and see if they can try to talk to their child about biting.But it is quite normal for kids to bite at this age my 2 yr old still does it sometimes when she gets frustrated when a toy is taken from her by another child we just firmly tell her no.

starlightstrm

Okay well calming down might help? Okay well I highly doubt you can file charges against a daycare because a child got bitten. If you can, then my bad. All I can recommend is that you switch daycares.

blσndiєє♥×

Well, technically your child does not HAVE to be there. Unlike if this was a public school environment you simply solve the problem by removing the child from the daycare.

You can definitely sue the place, this is the SECOND time. Get the info you need with a lawyer or at court and then go on and do what you gotta do. I can understand why you are so upset. It's B.S.!!!

Diana

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