Do you think from being grabbed and pushed by my boyfriend will cause me to miscarry?
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I am 6 weeks pregnant. (Thought I was 7 weeks but went to doctor again 2day, confirmed through ultrasound 6 weeks and 4 days). My boyfriend got into an argument and then lost his temper and he grabbed me and started shaking me and even hit me in the face. I know he is abusive and unhealthy and I should probably stop him, but before that is my baby okay? I heard that when it's so early in pregnancy if a woman is physically "manhandled" she could miscarry. Is this true? If I was to miscarry would it have happened right away? Also I know stress on the mother can cause her to miscarry and when he did this to me of course I was shaking and crying and hysterical. He didn't hit me anywhere near my stomach or anything, but he was shaking me by shoulders and wrists and slapping me in the face. Could this incident alone have caused a miscarriage since I'm only 6 weeks? How will I know if it did or not? I don't have any pain or cramps or anything right now. This happened about 40 min. ago.
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Answer:
I think the baby is fine and you need to miscarry the boyfriend. I ignored my x husbands abuse and that relationship ended with him putting a gun to my head and me begging for my life. RUN NOW!!!! Pushing is always the beginning of something far worse.
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First off, get the HELL away from him....and who cares if this is the *first* time...it's one time TOO many!! And you're PREGNANT with HIS child....it is completely OBVIOUS that he can give a rat's a-s-s about that fact. Do you care about yourself and your baby?? If you are saying YES, then LEAVE that house....get the help and support you need....do you want him to slap your baby around because it doesn't stop crying or whining?? This isn't an isolated incident.... My husband was slapped around by his low-life father as a child and it is the worst pain a human being can go through, especially as a defenseless child. My husband and I have worked through some trust issues in our marriage (he is afraid to trust our love because he obviously trusted his father to love him) and he is extremely emotional about his past...though he has never repeated it, but it really impacted him as a human being. Do you want to help another child be abused just to stay with your boyfriend? START SACRIFICING NOW as a mother....protect your child and stop being selfish....stop making excuses for your sorry excuse for a man that you live with. His behavior is DISGUSTING....and you know it. Why didn't you call the police? Get off Yahoo Answers and start taking some action for the safety of your baby!
Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife
Probably not, but it should cause you to get the hell away from him ASAP, and have him charged with domestic assault.
My3Boys
Probably not. I was having an extremely stressful day last week. Not from an abusive husband or anything but everything just piled up and I blew. I screamed so loud my stomach and jaw hurt. Talked to the nurse the next day. She told me to take a warm bath to try to relax. Drink lots of water and just try to relax. My husband is overseas and we have 6 cats and it was just crazy. You need to leave your boyfriend. He may not have done that to you before but chances are he'll do it again and again. And after each time, he'll cry or say he's sorry over & over again & buy you flowers or some other crap like that. Get what I mean? Does he realize you are pregnant??? You should've called the cops and had his *** hauled off to jail. Seriously. The only true way for you to calm down is to get yourself out of that situation before he DOES hit you in the stomach.
Malia
First of all, the baby is fine. You'd have to go through severe trauma before the baby's life would be in danger. Secondly, lose the guy FAST. Just because he's never treated you like that before doesn't mean anything. He treated you like that 40 minutes ago and so he will treat you like that again. No one deserves that treatment and no one should accept it. And if he is abusive to you he is likely to be abusive to your baby, especially if the baby is the reason he was hitting you. Call your doctor and set up an appointment to put your mind at ease about the baby. They will be able to hear the baby's heartbeat at this point and that will reassure you that it is okay. And, tell other people about the abuse--don't hide it or you will continue hiding it if it happens again. Tell a trusted friend, tell your doctor, tell the police if necessary. You don't have to take that from anyone. He has no right to treat you that way. Good luck. Be smart.
Erin B
It may you never really know. It definitely increases your chances. It starts with one and never stops. You either need to fix his problems by going to Anger Management/Therapy or you need to pack yours and your baby’s bags. Treat this as a warning of what is to come. If he did it once he will do it again because there will be days when he will get mad at you again. You don't want you or your child growing up with a father like that. Most everyone here knows what they are talking about, so listen. Talk to someone about this. Like what Garden suggested or any other source. Don't just tell a friend tell someone that has power to help you. I really hope you don't become another girl being abused all their life by their husbands. Women are in denial when this is happening to them because they love him, want to help him and are committed to their vows. As of right now it will be easier for to do something about it because this was the first time. Though years down the road you probably won't be able get yourself to leave him and help would probably be useless. So take this opportunity to get him help or leave. Since you love him I know it is going to be extremely difficult on you but you need not to ignore this.
Random
Honey PLEASE READ THIS! You need to CALL THE POLICE RIGHT NOW, I know you love your boyfriend, and all that but, what he did to you is totally wrong, and he should never ever have done that to you. It is very possible that you could miscarry, or have complications, from something like this. This is coming from experience, get away from him NOW, if you love your child, your growing fetus, choose your baby over that man, and do something about this now. What if he does this again, further down the road, and something happens, you will never forgive yourself even if it's not your fault. If even once a man is ABUSIVE, put him in check and do something, NOW, not later. I'm beggin you to get help now, and call to report this man who put his hands on you. If you need further help call them just to get the number for your local Abused Women's Shelter, and they will do everything they can to help you as well. Just please don't let him think he can do this to you. One time or 40 times, it's still not right and very unsafe for you and your baby. I'll tell you one thing, if you were one of my good friends, and you lived near by I would come get you and let you sleep here in my home, just to make sure you were safe and away from him. Love yourself and that growing baby, call the police and go to the hospital, just to get checked out. I wish I could say so much more, but I said what's important! Please do this now, and if you need anything else, please feel free to email me, for anything. I hope nothing goes wrong with the fetus, and I hope you get help now and not later, it could mean your life and the life of your baby. Good luck and let me know if you need anything, PLEASE :-(
~* Garden Empress*~
Never done it before... ohhh how typical! Let's make EXCUSES for your abuser! You probably had it coming, right??? If YOU choose to put up with this crap... fine, you're an adult (more or less) but don't bring a child into it... Abort it, put it up for adoption, whatever... but if you're going to stay with this loser and be one yourself... you're NOT a parent ANY child needs.
The_Nest
First of all, this is called assault. Call the police and have him arrested. Even let him cool his heels in jail for the night. If he does it once honey, he's going to do it again, and that's before the added stress of a new baby to care for. The continued stress of this on you is more likely to cause health problems than the actual phsyical attack. Secondly, you should be fine. The human body is very resilant, plus your body is already working overtime to protect the baby. He/she is protected in a womb of amniotic fluid, muscle, bone, etc. Had he hit you in the stomach it would be a concern. Please get help, don't become another statistic. Call friends, family, the police, anyone. And make an appointment with your doctor to discuss stress coping skills. Best of luck to you.
jpmummy2002
OH MY GOSH.... WELL NUMBER ONE U NEED TO LEAVE HiM...THEN TURN HiM iN FOR THE WAii HE TREATS U AND UR BABii THAT RiGHT THERE iSN`T RiGHT.
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