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PLANNED PARENTHOOD OPINIONS?

Why make such a big deal for one to sign their rights away or with forcing someone into parenthood these days?

  • a woman can get an abortion without the mans permission to get rid of a child she does not want,so why can't a man do the same? i ask because i have some people i know going through this now and seem to think it is not right for a man to go to court to challenge his rights to go away in court. i know people who have had it granted without ground for why they want to do it,then they ended up with not having to pay cs or being responsible for the child in any way,so i know it is legally possible in any state with a good lawyer. the woman i am talking about wants to call the man a deadbeat for not wanting any kids with her when she knew it from the start. he told her this in the beginning of the relationship and they used condoms each time. she took it upon herself to stop taking her pills because she did not feel like taking them daily.(her own choice). then the condom must have broken at some point, she tells him she is pregnant and he is angry. in my opinion i think she did it on purpose, because regardless of your religious or personal views, we all have choices in life. she chooses to keep the kid and did not consider the father, then i feel like it should be all on her financially. why yell it is my choice and my body, but you cry that you are too broke to pay for a kid alone? some people do not think when yelling these crazy things and plot to get pregnant on purpose if you ask me. my opinion is that you cannot lay down with everyone, you should not pin a kid on a man or woman who does not want it because we all have choices in our life, it is legally wrong to force someone into parenthood, and kids suffer in the end by making the unwilling parent pay for child support because the child will be neglected and treated badly in the end. if you can prevent all of this then women should consider the father's opinions before forcing a child on him. men should offer other options to help the woman out if you agree to abort or keep the child in every way,do not just leave them for the wolves. running to child support will not make the man want you or the kid, it only makes things worse for you and the kid(s). ( i am not speaking about parents who agree to go with child support rather than exchanging money, parents who agree with going to court together, marriages that dissolve unwillingly for both parties, planned children and situations where someone planned the child and decided one day that they did not want to be a parent) please do not think i am downing any of these situations because child support is very appropriate and signing rights away is in appropriate to get away from what you purposely planned and agreed on in regards to the child. all opinions i would love to hear no matter what they are! thanks!!!

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    Men also have the right to wrap it up. I have a feeling you would change your mind if you had a child and were abandoned by the father. In your world, no man has to take responsibility for his progeny. That is a sad, scary world that you propose. Your approval and support for men who abandon their kids might turn around on you one day. I doubt you would be as accepting if your husband pulled the same line as he leaves you with a little mouth to feed.

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HE is the one who decided to have sex with her even though she wasn't on the pill and even though condoms and pills aren't 100% effective, the baby is his responsibility. To some women, abortion is murder and they would not murder their child because the father doesn't want to take responsibility for their actions. She shouldn't have to choose between murdering her baby and raising a baby she can't support on her own that they both helped create. If he doesn't want a child pinned on him he better get a vasectomy or be more careful with how and with whom he has sex with.

I agree with Waffle and Cybi.

Kung-Fu Gabby

Oh please! I know exactly what kind of woman you are. For some unknown reason, you side with deadbeats and try to gain their sympathy by saying they were trapped with a baby that he had a big hand in creating and should recieve a "get out of jail free card" in supporting their child. Then, when you move in with one of these same deadbeats that you sympathize with and he skips out on the rent and steals your futon, you flip out saying he screwed you and you need to go to civil court because you can't afford the full rent alone. That is what we call irony.

Betty White is sick of your chit

I don't have an answer to this but I wanted to say you do have somewhat of a valid point. It's true, a woman can get an abortion without telling anybody, it's her choice and not anyone elses. The men have no say and are stuck footing the bill whether he wants to or not. That would suck if you were taking precautions and a pregnancy still occurs.

Rockym

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