How can i get out of my parents house im 17 and i cant continue to live here i have no freedom whatsoever!?
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My house is almost an impossible place to live both of my parents are constantly fighting over money that my mom blows and blames it all on me. i am 17 i just got engagd but cant get married yet and my parents treat him like crap behind his back and act all innocent and nice to his face what can i do to get out? please help he is the world to me and my rents are tearing us appart i need to get out of my house what do i do
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Answer:
Go to child services and file to seperate from your parents. I dont know how common this is but it can be done. Helps if there was abuse or something. Maybe you can ask your parents to move in with a relative?
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Wait until you turm 18 and bounce, but understand, you may live to regret that decision.
Dre'
Move in with a friend or your fiance. Wait a year or whenever you turn 18 then marry him regardless what your parents think.
sailor_ember_phantom
There is something called emancipation where you become legally separated at 17, but it takes a long time, maybe until you are 18. You have to prove that you can support yourself, too. If you live in South Carolina, you can legally move out at 17. Not sure which state you are in.
aber.fitch
Forget the marriage. You are too young and just trying to escape a binding relationship. Join the Air Force, or the Marines!
Thorbjorn
You silly girl, you want to have freedom to run off and play house with your boyfriend. Let's not worry about what he has to offer your relationship because I'm sure he's a gem. What do you have to put into a relationship? Are you a high school graduate? hows your credit score? What are your opportunities for advancement in your chosen career? If all you have to offer this young gentleman is teenage angst, a fertile womb, and your opinion that he is the world you should do him a favor and become your own world before you and your mutual offspring become shackles around his ankles. Do you really want to blow off aseventeen year relationship with your parents? You two are going to ruin eachothers futures, and I hate to tell you sweetheart, but women are the ones that live in poverty after they build their world around a boy. He'll be free to work whatever hours he wants, whatever days of the week he wants while you'll be stuck in a low wage job that only needs you during the hours your daycare is open. Then every other weekend Daddy will come in his new car with his new girlfriend and will spoil the heck out of your kid with no regard to the consequences you'll suffer for it. My Three year old's childcare is $165 a week. Add a house payment, utility bills, car payment and insurance, gas, diapers, food and formula ($18 a can) and decide if Mom and Dad are relly so bad. "House" is not nearly the enjoyable game you think it is.
theinfalliblenena
I am going to guess that fiance has employment with good income otherwise its jumping from frying pan to fire. If it is then there are different towns that might offer to marry at 17 its worth looking into.
scottg
what you think and do at 17 is def. no what you will do when you are older, ask anyone down here they'll tell you.. If you are sure he's the one for you I am sure he'll love to wait till you are older and have a degree and the maturity to handle a marriage. Meanwhile how about doing some degree, because you honestly cannot give your best to yourself once you are married and have children. Working for a living is hard child, I don't know what line your dad/mom is in but whatever it is they have worked and toiled their lives to put a roof over you. Sometimes when they see that money spent beyond their imagination they might react in a bad way, it happens to everyone. 20 years from now i wouldn't be surprised if someone says the same thing to your child. Anyways why don't you join college (finish high school then) you can maybe live in a dorm and also get the freedom u are talking about. Don't take it to heart they are your parents. Chill out.
samy'smom
OH YEH NOW YOUR THINKING! YEH IT WILL GET MUCH BETTER WHEN YOU MOVE OUT AND HAVE TO PAY ALL YOUR BILLS. Let's see: there's rent, power, gas ,phone, water, cable, car note, car insurance, health insurance, food. Then you probally want to shopping, movies... and other entertainment OH YEH and don't let me forget your boyfriend will now be the one that tells you what to do! SOUNDS LIKE A GOOD PLAN
leejea
I agree with Infal unless there is abuse stay where you are at. 18 is not the far away and boys come and go like the wind. You may not see that now but in 5 yrs you'll look back and see that life at 17 was not so bad.
notthemamas1
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