Want to fight somebody, What should I do?
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There is some kid at school, he was my good friend. I wasn't saying anything, and he told me to shut the **** up and asked me if I wanted to fight. I said no, he said I couldn't fight anyway and he would lay me out. His friend asked if I was scared of him and I said no, I just didn't want to fight him. This kid kept on bothering me and I knew in a fight I would win. However this kid always has someone with him that's going to help him fight. None of my friends are going to fight him, or his friends because him and his friends at school are 'popular' and me and my friend are only semi-popular. I am not going to ask a parent or adult for assistance, that would only make it worse. Trust me, I would be labeld a ***** for the rest of my school career. Don't think I won't be labeled, you aren't at my school. Should I just come at him and start fighting or should I do something else? Please help.
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Answer:
Tell him that if he needs 2 people to fight just you,then he must be really scared of you and that if he wants to fight he can fight you by himself.I highly doubt he'll pull anything-and if he does,oh well-he'll be labled as the puss-not you.Just fight him,you don't need any of your friends to help you-just fight him yourself.Tell him before you fight that he can throw the first punch(that way you'll technically be defending yourself).Just deck him in the face and lay HIM out right there.Good luck!!! P.S don't apologise for ANYTHING,but don't go talking $#!* either.He won't find a way to beat you either.If he can fight-he can if he can't,he can't.And beat the crap out of him as good as you can-no mercy.Another thing-good job at not being a tattle tale or getting adults involved in anything-that's awesome.give us the update on after the fight(if you fight)
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don't fight him he might get a knife or something. besides fights are for losers, they don't solve anything at all. things only escalate from there!!! nooo dont fight!!!! im actually scared for you! just talk to him or something when hes alone and solve your issues!! goodluck (please dont fight, what if someone gets seriously hurt)
brown
seek up on him,tap his shoulder,remain arms distance then punch in stomach,then nee him in the nose,then punch punch in face,finally punch in stomach again.
Dr. Dieter .S
ohlala. I would help you fight. Too bad. lol. to bad i'm nawt in ur school. anywho. Go up to him and make shure theres a crowd, especially of girls. Say, "I'll fight you if you won't be a pussy and get one of ur little friends to help you take me down." And if he doesnt agree, say u would beat him then. If he does, there you go
Mandaa Pandaa
If you choose to fight. Don't bring a weapon. Either way fighting in school or public could get you arrested and you will spend some time in juvenile and possibly expelled and forced to go to an alternative school with this guy. Or adult detention depending on your age. if you are 18 and the other person in underage don't touch him. assault on a minor. if both are under age and you decide to engage in a fight with him you better make it count because once you touch him its no going back. if you don't want to take it that far try to talk it out with just you and him and possible away from school. I know this sound stupid but if it could work what do you have to lose.
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If you have no other options, just fight him but don't hurt him too badly.
abc123
Ask him what his problem with you is privately. Ask why he feels he needs to fight. Many times adolencent/teen boys will want to fight for the sheer reason to establish dominance. This type of behavior is normal, but as a boy keeps winning dominance, they will become "too big for their brittches" as we used to say or more commonly known as a "bully". It's usually insecurity that drives a boy's need for dominance, and the testosterone that fuels it. Tell him when he can give you a good reason "Why" you should fight him. If you have offended him, appologize. If his only reason is "cuz, I wanna fight you" tell him that's not a good enough reason, and you could never fight someone who is intellectually inept, and you would have too large an advantage.
Kanakalele
if possible, just ignore them. let them talk but- if he keeps persisitng that you fight him, make sure never to be alone with him and his friends. then if you are in a place where you back can be covered by a wall or something and his friends cannot get behind you and you are not alone with just him and his friends, then fight. otherwise they may jump in once they see you winning. but defintely have you back protected if you know he is not gonna fight alone. and do your best to hit him hard enough to end the fight as soon as possible. and watch their hands. if they reach for things in their bags or coats or pockets, one could have a weapon. no, don't carry a weapon. you can get arrested. well you can get arrested for assulat too, but if you have a weapon who knows, somone could die. you ready for that?
kdf_333
you make this tough to answer because it is not clear why this guy wants to fight. If he wants to look like he is better than you by pushing you around, beating him in a fight might not end things there. He would want to win and would find a way to do that. This might be a situation where there is no great outcome for you. Consider being humble and appologise for what you think you did that set "him after you". Don't insult him with an appology that is going to sound irritating to him. Don't try to make up for that appology by acting smarter or better and just try to forget it. If you have to explain say that you don't want to fight someone you see as a friend and leave it there. If you think you can't trust him, then avoid him. This means that you are losing someone you called a friend and that can be tough to do. Don't talk badly about him to your other friends. Show him the respect he did not show you. Once you start fighting it sometimes does not stop. Even other people you have no arguments with now might want to fight with you later because you will have a reputation. Practice trying to talk your way out of these things because similar situations will probably come up for the rest of your life. The situations maybe not physical fights but someone may want to hurt you or beat you in other ways. Show them respect and don't lose respect for your self.
fred
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