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Major problems with my daughter and her school.?

• First of all, read this question and you will understand what I'm asking. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atib_kG4aV9W4yQmmpUvl6Xsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090422115651AA8bFwe Okay, I talked to the director of her program in that school she is currently in right now, she said that she will make some adjustments for her to adjust to the school, and she will be watching her the whole year and to help her if she's having problems. I had an IEP meeting with her school director and her local school phycologist and discussed about some adjustments and afterwards I asked my daughter (she wasn't going to school for the rest of the week that she started her new school) about the changes that they were gonna do for her to adjust to her new school, she agreed to that and ended up going back to school this Monday, and like the director said, she made my daughter introduce herself to a girl in her school, and the director even switched my daughter's schedule so she and her friend can hang out all day, and she had a decent day on Monday, although she said that the girl's friends acted like she didn't even exist, for example, she would hang out the girl and she would sit with with her and her other friends, but that none of her friends talked to her and when the girl was mentioning her because they did something fun or whatever, they just looked at her and would quickly turn their heads away. She even said that her friends gave her dirty looks when she came to sit on their table and that she suspected the girls were talking about her when she got up to throw her lunch away, because they were looking at her and whispering to her friend about her, and that they stopped as soon as she sat down with them again. On Tuesday, she came home crying again and says that she is miserable again, because the girl didn't even say hi to her, and she never talked to her all day, and hung out with her friends and never included my daughter on anything, and sat alone again on lunch time. My daughter tried sitting with the girl and her friends at lunch but they all took their lunch and moved to another table leaving my daughter by herself, and she had to hide in the bathrooms for the rest of the day because she's miserable in that school. On Wednesday, she didn't want to go to school, and she threw a huge tantrum that morning, and I even had to get the cops to escort her to school. But it took a lot of screaming and crying for her to get to school, and she came home very upset and said "Thank you for making my life miserable in school again REBECCA", and I asked if the director is watching her like she's supposed to, she said that she didn't see any of the special ed aid do anything to help her, she says that they know that she's alone again because she talked to the director and they said that they were gonna do something about it, but they never did, and neither the aids, nor the director, are helping her socially get through the school, and she says that she never wants to go back there again and that she hates everybody in that school. This morning, she flat out refused to go so I let her stay home because she's been through a lot that week and I'm not gonna let her go if she's gonna be miserable like that. But I know that she'll have to go eventually or else I'm gonna have child services come and take my kids away and I don't want that, and I can't homeschool her, her school phycologist doesn't approve it, and I can't change her to anymore schools. Either she goes to that school, or I send her back to the K-8 school where her sisters are attending, and where she attended for 3 years. I need help!!! I am in absolute loss of what to do right now.

• Answer:

  I've NEVER heard of needing a school's psychologist approval for homeschooling. Is it due to the Aspergers? Check your state requirements but I'm pretty sure you don't need permission from any kinda doctor. Good luck with your daughter.