MY 11 YR OLD DAUGHTER HAS BEEN FORCED TO POOP IN A BUCKET SEVERAL TIMES!?
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ok, my 11 year old daughter just told me today that for the past several months she has been forced to poop in a bucket when she stays at her best friends house during sleepovers. She told me her friend forces her to poop in the bucket that is placed in the bathroom, bedroom, or closet. The bucket is in only these 3 places at all times. When my daughter asks why she has to do , the best friend told her that if she didnt do it, her uncle would arrest her mom and it would be all jordans fault that she went to jail because she didnt poop in the bucket! Also, telling my daughter she better not tell anyone including any adults! So as I was absorbing all this information, my daughter told me that her best friend told her there was a camera installed in the bathroom light fixture by her uncle. My daughter has been staying the night about 3-4 times a month over the past several months. Another weird thing is that her friend tells her if she doesnt poop in the bucket, to poop over the bathtub or on the floor, but never in the toilet bowl that functions properly. She is allowed to urinate but not poop in the toilet. What do you think? What is the next step a parent should do? Also, my neighbor another 10 yr old girl, told her mother and I that she is forced to do the same thing when she has slept over and is also a witness about being told there is a camera hidden in the bathroom. So, is calling the police too far? I called them this evening, and an officer took my report. He will be back in the morning after he speaks my daughters best friend and her mother. Your thoughts please?? get police involved or settle this with the child and her mother??? also, my daughter says her friend forces her to eat certain foods that will make her "go", then harass her the entire time she is over there, about going to the bathroom, and if she doesnt go poop in the bucket, she is going to be in trouble.
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Answer:
Okay well obviously something creepy, unusual, and perveted is going on in that household. I serioulsly recommend getting the police right away. And make sure your child never goes to that house ever again. Even if they are best friends, your daughters life may be at risk.
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First be really proud of your daughter for finally telling you this as she probably feels strange that she continued staying over there. I dont think that you over reacted by letting the police deal with the matter because at least they know the boundaries of the law and can investigate with out the emotion that you would obviously have if you confronted them yourself. The whole thing is bizaar and the camera concerns me and there are alot of bizaar people out there. You are just protecting your daughter. Her mother may not be aware of this and hopefully the girl saying these things to your daughter is making the whole camera thing up..The police will put a stop to this and get to the bottom of the situation. thank good your daughter trusted you to tell you so try not to be to upset in front of her because she may feel responsible for you being upset.
JODIE P
You need to call the police immediately. The uncle sounds like a pervert and a freak. Don't let your child go over their and tell your neighbor not to let her daughter go over there either. Tell your daughter you are proud of her for telling you about this. Don't allow your daughter's best friend to come over to your house either. Hope this helps!!
Valentina R
Wow, thats absolutley mad!!!, calling the police was the right thing to do!, them freaks should get locked up!
Oni V
Calling the police would NOT be going too far. This is beyond sick. Call them at once. If there's nothing going on, it'll cause that family some headache. If there is though, they will be investigated. It doesn't sound like something that children would make up, so there is surely something going on. I am so sorry this happened to you guys.
EB588
Well I don't think that I would allow my child back over there if I were you. Even if you leave the cameras out of the equation why on earth would your daughter's friend force her to poop in a bucket? Perhaps there is some sort of mental issue there? If your daughter's friend is making up all this crazy stuff to get your daughter to poop in a bucket do you think that she is possibly making up the camera stuff too? No, I definitely would not let my child hang around with her. She just doesn't sound right. If she is forcing her to do that, what will she force her to do next?
darkstar80
First be really proud of your daughter for finally telling you this as she probably feels strange that she continued staying over there. I dont think that you over reacted by letting the police deal with the matter because at least they know the boundaries of the law and can investigate with out the emotion that you would obviously have if you confronted them yourself. The whole thing is bizaar and the camera concerns me and there are alot of bizaar people out there. You are just protecting your daughter. Her mother may not be aware of this and hopefully the girl saying these things to your daughter is making the whole camera thing up..The police will put a stop to this and get to the bottom of the situation. thank good your daughter trusted you to tell you so try not to be to upset in front of her because she may feel responsible for you being upset.
Joshua M
Sounds like the uncle is a pedophile. Call the police. All the best.
ozboz48
You need to tell your daughter she did the right thing telling you because you keep NO secrets in your home. Praise her a lot for telling you. Then you need to call child services so a home visit can be done to that home. Her friend could be in a lot of trouble. When it comes to helping a child, you have no choice but to call the authorities even if it means terminating a friendship. Your daughter will learn a life lesson of standing up for herself no matter what. It will be hard and she'll miss the little girl but think of what you have stopped and the seed you planted.
Sara
no offense to u or ur daughter. her friend is weird. her friend's uncle is weird. I honestly think child porn. bad. call the police. talk to the uncle. if your going to talk in person, bring a friend, or 2. dont let ur daughter go to that again. honestly, again no offense to ur daughter, but she may not be telling the whole truth because she is embarrassed or afraid. the police is definitely a good idea
haggis
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