How do I find the right guy?

How can I find a special guy who will treat me right?

  • I'm not!! I’m 16. I've had been on the honor roll for seven years (but this year, do to some problems I have, to get a 4.0 GPA).I'm in a lot of good actives and a lot of people know me. I know a little Spanish and a little of Japanese as well. My old crush, Taylor had got beaten up not to long ago over some girl. And he always has put me down all the time, make me feel small. He was a loser from the beginning and I should have seen it. Also I’ve also heard one of them saying “don’t worry, she’s stupid, she believe anything!” I do not believe IN EVERYTHING!! Well, one had said it over the phone, by, leaving the phone on while he was talking to his mom. And he was the ONE who was crying on the cell!!! When he first had called me! And later HE had lie to me about he doesn’t have a girlfriend, they just friends, THATS A LIE!! The other one is a jerk! He had a girlfriend in the SAME class we were in (health in 9th) and 1 and a half year later he was beaten up and it shows!! So how can I find a guy who treats me right? All my crushes ARE LOSERS, I don't want to end up like my grand mama, it had happen to her the same way as well. Plus, my old crushes have friends like them and they keep thinking I'm stupid or weird, for the reason that I'm different from the other girls in my school. One of my friends knows one of my old crushes, and she had said” he is a BIG JERK!” How can I find some one who treats me right, like a best friend and turn into to my boyfriend someday? Because, most of my guy friends are very nasty, bi, and gay and some a step above my old crushes. Plus, three of them live around me and one lives in the city, (the 18 year old). So how can I find a guy who treats me right? Please say (nice Things) Thanks!

  • Answer:

    Think about the boys in your class who might have a crush on you but you've never given a second glance? Try one of them honey, and good luck.

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First, stop writing such long questions. Then someone may listen to you. I have no idea what you said, i didn't want to take the time to read it. Don't talk so much.

Fa Q

First of all every boy is different. To get a boy to notice you, you must be funny. Make it look like you have a million and one things to do. Most boys are attracted to a women who does not have the time for them. That is why they chase after them in the first place. What ever you do don't put your self out there as desperate. That is the number one turn off for all guys.

donna l

Pray to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Always turn every thing over to him

Laura Y

Just try to befriend someone that maybe you had thought about being with before. And just so you know you aren't alone. I'm 15 and well, my last boyfriend was out of his mind! Just keep up the search..... Good Luck! Oh, and don't let them get to you! (The most important part)

!!Basketball_player!!-#25!!

Try not worrying so much about guys, enjoy the activities that you are involved in and when you least expect it, the right one will come along.

mommy3

Well, luckily you are not 30 and writing this message... you have lots of time. Boys are not all that they are cracked up to be!! Enjoy your activities and getting good grades right now. You don't HAVE to have a boyfriend like so many young teens think. Good girls tend to go for the bad boys... I always did!! Look around at the ones that are in your good activities, maybe you should go for a good smart man that in the future will amount to something. I hope that you can not worry so much about boys... there will always be guys but you will not always be in high school. Enjoy school, I know you think I am stupid for that comment right now but I (like most of the world) wish that I were in high school again. Life was so easy then!!!!!!!!! Good luck, you'll find him but make sure he is the right guy.

sherry

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