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Where To Buy Christian Gifts?

Men if u date someone who makes the same amount of money as u do u buy them less gifts?

  • i have been dating mark for 3 yrs now and get gifts on my bday and xmas only.i got flowers once a 2 cards in 3 yrs.now his exwife(who was a stay at home mom) and last gf(single mom with no money) got flowers monthly,boxes of cards,expensive gifts ect.now i don't want expensive gifts but just wonder why he does not do for me as he did for them.Its not because he got burnt becuase they did not apprecite the gifts i know they did.and i allways give him little gifts/cards for no reason and never ask for anything in return.the only thing different between me and his ex's is i have more money so does that mean i get less gifts/love letters?

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    Sure it is possible that he thinks he doesn't need to provide gifts because of the amount of money you make.BUT. I'm going to assume that this man is not a material based shallow person when I say that he probably is just treating his new relationship differently than his old ones. In other words, he probably thinks that he will get the same results as he did before by doing the same things. 2+2 always =4, and I think he wants more and is trying to add more to the equation.

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Maybe it's not so much about you making the same amount of money, or even because he was burned in the past, as much as it could be that for once in his life, someone is lavishing him with gifts. Just remember that love isn't about fancy gifts, flowers and cards, it's about enjoying spending time with each other and finding a new reason to love that person each and every day.

terasa425

I think it may be that he showered his first wife with gifts, etc, and look how that turned out! Maybe he figures he won't take that route again! I doubt it has anything to do with your income.

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