What are nuptial vows?

What do we do to plan a nice renewal of vows?

• My husband and I we're going to go to Vegas to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary. We we're going to leave our children with my brother for a few days while we went to Vegas, and had fun. While in Vegas, we we're going to have a renewal of vows. Now we can't...... Problem 1: Kids! I found out in May that I am expecting twins. I didn't know I was 13 weeks pregnant.. Gotta love PCOS. I am expecting boy/girl twins. We have a 6 year old son with mild autism, and a 3 year old daughter (we just completed her adoption on friday). So how do we incorporate our 4 blessings into our renewal of vows? Problem 2: Location! We live close to the ocean, but hubby doesn't want to have the renewal there. We're not to far away from a National Park, and we would like to have the renewal of vows up there in the summer time. But we will have young babies, and I'm not sure if the location we like will be appropriate for our youngest two, who will be toddlers by then. Our older two children want to go to Disneyland. Problem 3: Money! Most of the money we have saved for our Vegas trip is now going to be used for the twins. We have a $3,000 budget for everything. Food, gas and lodging. We're not sure if this will be enough. Problem 5: Attire! We're not sure what we want to wear. Hubby wants Levis Jeans, and nice shirts. I thought about chocolate pants (dockers), dark cream shirt for him and the boys, and a chocolate skirt and a dark cream shirt for me and our girls. *** There won't be guests invited. It will be just me, my husband and our kids.*** I really need some ideas. Please be tactful. Thanks.

• Answer:

  How fun! One of the thoughts is to have it in Yosemite http://www.yosemitevalleychapel.org/weddings.htm#fees. I don't know if that's the National Park you had in mind, but if you're up to it, make it a camping trip.