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Why cant i cope with normal things?

  • i cant cope with normal things like homework, school and most of all emotional stimuli i cant cope i don't know why i don't know whats going on, im only 12 i shouldn't be like this non of the people in my class are like me. ok can anyone tell me what is wrong with me. List of maybe unusual things: I get really angry really easily i keep it too myself mostly which results in rages (others may call it tantrums but that annoys me when they say that) My rages often last 20-30 minutes i would screuncontrollablybly. I am realsensitiveive and cry easily i can cry because of peoples body language and i feel ignored all the time and i feel attention seeking when i am sad butdon'tont know if i am upset or attention seeking. i feel like i cannot trust people and i have 3 friends whodon'tont like to say are my friends because my opinion of my friends changes quite quickly. i hate my family they offer me no support i just want to get away from them the are not bad people i just hate the idea of being in a family where i am not playing the role of mother, i really want to forget about them and be my own person.and also i have had frequent dreams of me killing my brother or my brother trying to kill me. i feel sad almost all the time my mood sways frangryery to sad to fearful. i think i have depression but i think there somethinging else too. Everyday i look up personality disorders that i think i may have i can read the same page 6 times a day. i Have the same fantasy i escape to i am a pretty girl with a partner who loves and adores me and wants to marry and have children with me. I am usually withdrawn from people i am afraid of going out to the shops or anything in case i have to talk to anyone although i long for a man to notice me and want to be my boyfriend somethinging. i have to spray my bathroom withdisinfectantent that says it kills 99.9% of bacteria becausedon'tont like sharing bathrooms with people. I think that people can read my mind so i spend alot of time alone but then i think people are against me and watching me like the ghost of my dead grandmother sometimesmes i think my science teacher is watching me. when i get panicked i hear voices saying sick or vomit (because i have emetophobia) When my mum nags me to do homework its annoying and makes me really angry or really sad, more than i think other kids do i would sit and cry for 10 mins or more. this has been going on for 2 or 3 years (and it dosent help when you have had a pessimistic view of things for as long as you can remember. i am seeingcounselorler but its slow progress i only see her once every 2 weeks for 45 minutes but i want more time with her also i go silent when i find a question difficult to answer. help can you tell me whats wrong.

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    It seems you're on some sort of (clinical, mild) depression but be aware that no one can make a diagnosis by internet. The best bet is seeing a psychiatrist for a proper diagnostic and treatment. If for some reason that's not an option or if you dislike taking meds, read http://natural-depression.blogspot.com/ The site has a poor design but its contents is ok. In many cases (mild) depression will respond quickly to the use of this treatments (within a few weeks), but if this still doesn't work, see a psychiatrist; psychiatric treatment for depression involves antidepressants and usually but not always, therapy.

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It's a simple case of extreme anxiety disorder. It's normally caused by stress, or some trauma you felt at an early childhood. They only way to get rid of it is to talk it out, or through exercises, like with your counselor. Ask your mother if you can have more time, and stay strong. There are people in this world that need you.

Zach

I've got two options you should try. First, find someone very loyal and befriend them. One of your problems seems to be that you lack any social stimuli. Life is very boring and lonely without people to share experiences with. By finding someone loyal, they will help you cope with your problems. The counselor is good, but 45 minutes every 2 weeks isn't nearly enough. I recommend you talking to your counselor about finding people to socialize with, that won't be judgemental. The second option you can try is to set a goal for yourself. Make it a lifelong goal that you want to accomplish. What do you want to do with your life? What are you interested in? Find something that you really want and try to get it, try to accomplish it. This will keep you focused on something important. It will help keep your mind off of other things that are troubling you, and you can be doing something productive. I give you this advice because this is the conclusion that I came up with dealing with a similar situation as you. Though there are troubling aspects about my life, I keep moving forward. I don't let other decide how I will feel. You need to put your life in your own hands, and try not to think about how others treat or feel about you. Hope this helps.

Chris

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