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Am I Crazy how do i stop being self conscience?

I'm really self conscience how can i stop caring what people think?

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    Try this: draw a circle on a piece of paper. That's you. then draw little circles that just touch your circle at one point. Draw some other circles that don't touch at all. These are other people. They are in their own circle, and only bump onto your circle briefly. Let's say you belch loudly in front of the minister in church. Oooops! Embarrassing. But he's in his own circle. He will forget about that belch in minutes. Because it isn't about him. Most people are so caught up in themselves, they don't really think about you at all. So next time you worry what someone will think, picture that big circle with the little circles barely touching.

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Don't worry about what they think. If you can make someone smile, and you have a positive attitude, that's what counts. Just try to do what you want done to you, and when people do wrong to you, don't depend on those people. Just know who you are, and if people don't like it, that's not your problem.

Derrick M

Stop in the middle of a big group of people that you dont know, sing your favorite song and dance like no one is watching ( even though they are)

jazzyredhead

just think of something that they have thats funnier than your problems. Everyone has somehting to make fun of^_^

NiceGuy 24/7

How old are you? When I was younger I used care what people thought, but the older I got the less it bothered me. I'm only 22 and have a 3 year old daughter. But it doesn't matter what people think of you, all that matters is what you think of yourself. So try and not worry what people think. Take care.

Katie Girl

I find that I am alot harder on myself than other people are... Sometimes, its just a matter of making some good friends wherever you go and talking with them... get comfortable around people and don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure you are doing just fine and people think you're ok - you just don't see it because you have high standards of approval yourself! One thing that I like to do to get comfortable around people is to ask them alot of questions - get them talking and soon you will see that they are not worried about you and how you look/act... most people have much more serious stuff on their minds. If there are people in your life who criticize you alot but never offer anything nice to say - you must get those people out of your life. Consider the things they've said to you but don't keep the dead weight around...

rabble rouser

Is there a reason that has caused you to feel this way?, You need to think, and find out why! Did someone do something to you to make you feel worthless, or guilty, when In fact it is the other person who is the guilty one, confront the issue, If you know,then seek help In doing so.Read self help books,continue school, and work for a goal, and stop wasting you're life on the negative, and just think about the discrepancies all these people you care about what they think of you, have!!!!

zuriel

Consider this a motherly advise: Be confident and be confident. Do some positive affirmation each morning when you wake up. " I am pretty, I am smart, I am the best, I am good, I will lead, I am tall etc.." I hum this lyrics each time I go out of the door " Something good is going to happened today, happened to me this very day".

crush4ever

I am the same way. I have tried to stop but I can't. I have had some eating disorders and everything from it. Its hard. Good luck

mom_of_4

i had the same proble and the only way to do that is to accept yourself for who u r and not what other people want u to be *** everyone else in the end the only one u can trust is yourself

Diana K

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