Why do I have problems with texting through yahoo?

Was he the one with the problems or was it me?

• I dated my ex boyfriend for about a year and a half and we met on xbox live. Before you say anything i know it was stupid but i know he was not a stalker because i heard him on the phone and talked to his parents before, even though we live in different states. But we broke up 3 months ago and i just keep thinking about all the things that happened and looking back at like my old questions on here, i can't believe some of the things i asked amd advice for our so called relationship. But i was going through a rough time because i met him around the time my dad died and we started dating, so i was going through a lot. I remember i believed him but it turns out he lied to me about a lot of things. He then said before that we dated started dating in 2008 but we dated in 2009 he would say weird things and i was worried but i let it slide and did not think much of it. But then he would say how we would get married and meet one day, which i went along with it and i did not think it was weird but, he would sometimes pretend to be different people when really it was obvious it was him and he would say he would have to go to the hospital then pretend that i was texting somebody else when i had a feeling it was him all along. Then he asked me about my past boyfriends and asked what i did with them and when i told him about my ex boyfriend he got so jealous when we did not even do anything, i am still a virgin and when i had a new boyfriend and he found out about it, he would tell me to break up with them and then i did and he asked if i kissed him and i said yes he got so mad he wanted his number so he could probably tell him off. Because i never kissed anyone before and he knew that but i had my first kiss and he went nuts. He was emotionally abusive. He is still on my yahoo contacts well on my chat thing and i have no idea why, a long time ago he added me to his contacts because we did email sometimes but after we broke up i would see him on chat online every time i logged in but he would not say anything, i have posted things on my profile on my yahoo pulse but when he seen stuff that i posted he posted on his status ''text me'' with his number. He was talking to me but just put it on his status. I thought that was weird because we ha vent talked in 3 months. I was suicidal sometimes and i threatened to take my life but it was because was going through a lot and he told me that ever since we met its been drama with him. I just cant stop thinking about all this because it has affected me being lied to. MY grandma said i need to stay away from him. He lies so many times. I just don't know what to think. I am better now and take medicine for depression. Does it sound like he could have serious problems? Or is it me? Oh and forgot to say that after we broke up he would always try to apologize and talked about him crying and begging to take him back and would promise he would marry me, does this sound not normal?

• Answer:

  I think the both of you had problems goin on, you were vulnerable and he was psycho, what better a mixture for drama could you ask for?.....sorry about your dad, I know that hurts really bad...stop thinkin about Mr. psycho, he's in his own little world, you have your own life to live, you don't need a sociopath leading you around by the heartstrings. Nathan