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Im young,good looking so why do I hate going out and socialising?

  • Im 23, female, care about how I look and dress, studying photography. So why after lectures and work do I just want to go home? im now shy and quiet in conversations, im aware of every word im saying when talking to people and I just say im busy when I get invited to parties or pub drinks. And I just dont know why but I just avoid social situations, on the other hand i feel incredibly lonely at times and get really depressed by it, what is wrong with me?

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    You took too heavy a dose of reality. Stop thinking about it and just try something new. It might be disappointing, but that's why you don't have to do it again. I'm anti-social too. So I just force myself to go crash social events. Just remember to amuse yourself FIRST and NEVER try to make everyone else happy.

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Nothing wrong. Your just you.

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I'm the same way, you're just an introvert. Nothing wrong with you, it's just who you are.

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i am exactly the same! i want to go out and have fun but i just cant seem to do it! and im soooo shy when it comes to talking with people! im very interested in answers to this!

Butterfly!

watch "yes man" xP

Sammy

Anti social?? There's nothing wrong with that, I'm anti social.. among other things. I'd suggest seeing someone about the depression though, that's not healthy

NvrMnd smart1 its over ur head

Because that is your nature. There's nothing wrong with you at all.

Mr. Shpongadongle

Same thing here, i started a diary - helped organize my thoughts. I tried to get comfortable enough sitting in silence while people around me were talking helped but more than that, i think its a matter of who not you. Lol that sounded corny but yeah, with certain people i can be totally relaxed and feel like myself but with others (sometimes it feels like EVERYONE else) i just cant find the right words or thoughts or emotions. Also, im worse with crowds than 1 on 1 with people, and with people i've known only for a short while.

Beans

You need to sort your head out and need personal distance. Nothing abnormal about it. Going out to a barrage of clubs, loud music etc don't make sense. We all need to document life, make sense of it and that may be wyhat you are subconsciously trying to do hence why you can't enjoy things as much as others who are 'making out' they are.

Hellothere

I feel exactly the same way as you, I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting your own personal space. I understand the lonliness thing though - I get it sometimes too.

Becky

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