How does mono affect a person?

Would you allow how you felt about one person to affect how you felt about the entire Sun Sign?

  • I find it a struggle not to, and don't always succeed. Do you find it hard not to prejudge someone you just met based on someone from that sign who was a total jackass to you? When you know someone else of that same sign who ISN'T an asshat, does meeting the second person have an affect on how you feel about the first?

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    I will admit that it's hard not to. I have had really bad experiences with both Aries women and Cancer women so that when I do meet women of those signs, I am automatically suspicious and my guard goes up. I've always clashed with Aries and Cancer women...it's an instant and mutual dislike. With Aries, it's because of their enormous ego and the fact they think everyone in the world is either in love with them or is jealous of them. With Cancer, they are just too sensitive and dramatic for me to take seriously. (Keep in mind, this is ONLY my experience). I do try to keep an open mind though; I know that every person is different. One of my best friends is a Leo; same as I am and we are as different as night and day. I'm not going to automatically hate someone if they tell me they're an Aries or a Cancer. I will give everyone a chance :)

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No I don't. I believe in giving "new people" the benefit of the doubt, however I DO keep their sign in mind when I first find out. If I have ONE bad experience with a person of a certain sign, it will not mean anything to me. If I have MULTIPLE experiences with DIFFERENT people, all of the same Sun Sign, yes I may prejudge them a bit. Who wouldn't? I have had multiple bad experiences with Pisces men and Leo women, to a point where now when I meet a new person who belongs to that sign and gender, I'm just like.."UGH!..Let's see how this goes.." I will keep it in the back of my mind, and somehow they never fail to prove my theory that I simply just do not "click" with those types of people. If I met one that DIDN'T live up to my bad expectations, I would surely not hold their Sun Sign against them, but some people just do not mesh well together, and that's that.

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lol i'm glad you're struggling with that too. cause i have that problem as well. like for me.. it's aries. i hate arieses ! ( sorry arieses ) when i hear someone is an aries i'm like oh noes, this is not gonna go well! and when i met some nice ones, they didn't change the way i felt about the original jackasses who formed my opinions about the sign. they just seem to be exceptions to the rule. ( ex diablo, grr, killer )

Witch, please!

No, not really, I think I've been good about not doing that. For a while though, I have had problems with Mercury in Libra, but not necessarily a Libra Sun. I wasn't seeing eye to eye with them, and if I ran into someone else with that same Mercury, for a while there, I would assume I shouldn't get into any long conversations with them, because it always ended in an argument. I've let that judgment go now, and I think for the most part, I don't judge by Sun signs, or any planetary placement. If I did, I would hate my own sign, because of Rush Limbaugh (Capricorn), lol.

The Collapse of Civilization

One Person? No... But I've met many people from Leo who irritate me. Several. And every Pisces I've known besides my mom (who has a ton of Earth in her chart) has attempted to backstab or manipulate me or someone else. So yeah.. my view of those signs is negative. But in general, I know there are good and bad people of every sign.

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lets put it this way, your one of few reasons making me like capricorns

I have before. When I was first learning about astrology and especially sun sign astrology when I was younger, I would stereotype Virgo men and women. I had bad experiences with both in junior high school. There was a Virgo girl and a Virgo guy that would bully me in high school. It was the emotional bullying, not the physical kind. I won't go into detail about all what was said about me, but it was hurtful. So I associated ALL Virgos with being bullies. AT THE TIME, OF COURSE!! I don't associate Virgos with being bullies anymore. Also, I have/had a bad experience with my Virgo sun grandfather ( who has a lot of Leo in in his chart ). He loses his temper easily and can be a jackass at times. So I associated all Virgo men with being jackasses. Of course, I don't do this now... I am right with Grr with what I do now. I will give people the benefit of the doubt first and see how it goes. I always do. And I can't say I have the best relations with multiple Pisces sun people either, although I either tend ot get along iwth them great or not at all. But one person won't determine what I think about an entire sun sign. It has to be multiples. ANd I also look at other factors in their chart also. Sag sun Leo moon Aquarisu rising

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Yes, I have that kind of attitude towards Capricorns. My ex-best friend is a Capricorn Sun, Aquarius Moon. Well, most other Capricorns I know are cold and insensitive. But my grandmother (Capricorn) is a wonderful person and I love her a lot. It's obviously irrational to be prejudiced like that because there are good and bad people in every sign.

Joanna

No, not really. There are a few signs I like less than others due to past experiences. Yet, though I have reservations I keep an open mind.

positively4thstreet

Yes. A friend called me a racist for not liking Obama. I told her that isn't not because he is black that I don't like him. I don't like him because he is a Leo. She said that oh that made sense then.

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