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What is the definition of true friendship?

What's your definition of true friendship and do you think you've found it?

  • Just a random question, I've been feeling really down for the past few days. It seems that my friends and family only appear when I'm happy. When I have troubles, no one is there to help me or just to lend me their ears. On the outside, I seem like a funny, carefree and happy person. But on the inside I'm actually quite soft lol. To me, a true friendship is hard to find. A friend is a person who is willing to stand by you and you'll also do the same. A friend doesnt have to share the same interests with you, just the understanding and connection will do. I don't think I've found true friendship and I doubt that I will ever find it lol. Q: has anyone felt emotional lately, like I do? Is this because of the pisces transit or something? Include your Sun, Moon sign 5th and 11th House. If you have any planets in 5th or 11th house, list them down please :) also, feel free to post anything that you think is related. Thanks for your input. Sending all my love through the screen :P

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    just ignore her and wait until her birthday then you sent her a happy birthday text message and apologise for not contacting her because you are busy etc. Then she will learn not to get angry with you over petty things anymore because she realized that she missed you a lot when you weren't around.

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Well, you're defintely not the only one. True friendship truly is hard to find, some takes a whole life but can't seek it. I have the same concept of true friendship like you do. to me,true friends are the ones who don't have the same interests, same belief and personalities but they dare to accept your real personality, to forgive and understand you. Actually, what you described above is similar to me..the inside and outside part. Sometimes, I ask for a help and encouragement in SILENCE from friends when I'm feeling down. But then, I think I haven't finish my life yet. And true friends is still true friends even though they cannot be with us when we are upset sometimes. There might be other times in the future, especially when we calls for our help. I also have 2 best friends and they are completely different from me. In the past, I got upset because they rarely appeared when I'm unhappy though I always appear when they were upset. It seems like they avoid the moments of unhappiness in my life lol. But actually, just coincidence and sometimes having a busy life. Then I found out just making my friends happy is enough, they then realise and treat you the same. Time also will build the ties of friendship closer. We are now best friends for 10 years after so many quarrels and differences. :D. Moreover, some said that if we want true friends, being a true friend first. So, don't get upset. This feeling will be over. And don't lose your belief in true friendship. Gluck with finding true friendship in life...*Cross finger for ya* :) Anyway, I'm Sun/Mercury/Moon in Libra, Venus Scorpio, Leo Ascendant. A Libra Sun and Leo Ascendant helps me a lot in making friends and I really can't live without friendship. Seems to be a bit sociable and easy-going but my Venus Scorpio makes me feel hard to trust ppl. Then I became careful in chossing true friends along with the indecisiveness in Libra Moon. 11th House Mars in Cancer, 5th House Neptune/ Uranus in Capricorn....Dunno wat these affect.

Stella

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