Who is the woman who does the mercury commercials?

Astrologically speaking, as far as being faithful is concerned, how well (or poorly) does this woman do ?

• That is to say ... once she's finally found someone whom she truly loves, who also (obviously) genuinely loves her back. Here's the chart info (link to chart wheel included at the bottom as well) : 3 October 1982 local time 2:14 pm in New York, NY (US) U.T. 18:14 74w00, 40n43 sid. time 14:06:29 Sun Libra 10°12'09 in house 9 direct Moon Aries 19°10'01 in house 3 direct Mercury Libra 6°59'23 in house 9 retrograde Venus Libra 2°06'51 in house 9 direct Mars Sagittarius 9°30'58 in house 11 direct Jupiter Scorpio 12°07'17 in house 10 direct Saturn Libra 23°20'16 in house 9 direct Uranus Sagittarius 1°50'52 in house 11 direct Neptune Sagittarius 24°29'05 in house 12 direct Pluto Libra 26°11'27 in house 9 direct True Node Cancer 8°35'31 end of house 6 retrograde Ascendant Capricorn 9°14'48 2nd House Aquarius 20°33'37 3rd House Aries 2°00'56 Imum Coeli Taurus 3°51'49 5th House Taurus 27°54'01 6th House Gemini 18°23'39 Descendant Cancer 9°14'48 8th House Leo 20°33'37 9th House Libra 2°00'56 Medium Coeli Scorpio 3°51'49 11th House Scorpio 27°54'01 12th House Sagittarius 18°23'39 Sun Conjunction Mercury 3°13 Sun Sextile Mars 0°41 Sun Square Ascendant 0°57 Moon Opposition Saturn 4°10 Moon Trine Neptune 5°19 Moon Opposition Pluto 7°01 Mercury Conjunction Venus 4°53 Mercury Sextile Mars 2°32 Mercury Sextile Uranus 5°09 Mercury Square Ascendant 2°15 Venus Sextile Uranus 0°16 Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 2°52 Saturn Sextile Neptune 1°09 Saturn Conjunction Pluto 2°51 Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°42 http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=usqfileMKaqov-u1172972907&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=427926&nho2=427926&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=16&smon=11&syr=2011&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&add=20&aspc=1&asp=1&ast= IE - Once again, as usual, only astrologically based answers are & will be accepted. No "astrology is bull sh*t." types of answers, please. After all, this IS the Horoscopes section, of course. Much, much thanks in advance. :-)

• Answer:

  The birthchart shows our inner dynamics ... but not the actions that we choose. If we were insects, we would have no choice over our actions .. but we are humans, and even if we haven't found our ability to choose, we DO have the ultimate say in our actions, if we choose to. Therefore, the birth chart does not control our choices or actions. People are unfaithful for 4 reasons: 1. They have low self-esteem and therefore a high need to have the approval of others (including being shown that they are sexually desirable). 2. They are afraid of their inner, buried feelings so they don't have much strength when trying to resist temptation, they have a hard time denying things that appeal to them (including other people's bodies) 3. They don't understand that relationships require more from us than friendships do .. they treat their lovers like friends (after all, if you wanted to go to bed with someone, you wouldn't NOT do it just because you had a friend). 4. They get carried away when they become angry, and might deliberate cheat in an attempt to "get back" at their partner who made them angry. This girl ... Reason #1 could be a problem ... or NOT: Moon in Aries opposite Saturn gives a restlessness because of low self-esteem. She is not necessarily unfaithful .. she could learn to face her own fears about self-worth, and to work directly on learning to approve of herself instead of trying to get it from others. This person could end up being totally faithful. Aries Moon opposite Pluto could possibly cause #4, but likely not. She tends to hang onto old hurts, instead of processing them and getting over them. And when something in her current environment or relationship reminds her of one of those old hurts, she blows up and becomes drastically angry. This creates major problems in her relationships, because she is overreacting, and much of what she is reacting to is actually in the past, not the present (which makes her partner feel abused and wrongfully accused). This causes a lot of pain for herself, too ... with 5 planets in Libra she has a very strong need to keep things even and harmonious, and to have relationships that run along smoothly, with minimal conflict. Note that everyone has some difficult aspects in their charts ... no one is perfect, after all. This chart you've presented ... it's really quite a good chart. Lots of internal areas that flow and work together well (all the sextiles and trines).