Does anyone have the LG Venus?

Virgo moon, Venus in Virgo man. Anyone have one of these in your lives?

• Hey all! I've had this Leo( Virgo moon and Venus in Virgo) in my life for quite some time. I think we liked one another from the moment we met but it's never really taken off due to distance and occupations etc. But when he's been on the same continent we have hung out(even though he tours with a band and would rather be battling with the on going jet lag) and we've stayed in contact(now and again) usually through my initiating it. He's quite a perplexing man. He's quite a bit older than myself so I presumed, initially, that he would be quite straight forward. He tells me I'm beautiful and amazing etc but then he disappears off the face off the earth for months. When we're in each others company, we get on very well but it's very frustrating that I'm maintaining the contact. I can tell he's shy and quite awkward. But I can tell he is interested and it's been confirmed by friends who have seen us together. I'm very confused tbh. How can a man give all the signs of interest yet not remain in contact. My friend is a Virgo (with a libra moon and Venus in Libra) and he manages to call me from Australia on his mobile, yet I can't seem to get this other man to initiate many of our emails!! First date we had, we met by chance at an after show party and he remained with me the whole night. We happened to be staying the same hotel and he stayed by my side the whole evening and we stayed up talking in the wee small hours with him asking to see me the next day. And then he jets off and aside from a couple of emails, nothing. I have said that I'd pull away but he's always said that I should come back to him if I'd like to. INFURIATING!!! I've read that the moon and venus signs generally dictate the individuals approach to romantic situation. I've read that people with Venus in Virgo tend to shy away from pursuing those they are interested due to fear of rejection. Coupled with an earth sign in their moon, I've read that that fear is only heightened and that it's all about the waiting game. Is this really true? I just want it from an astrological point of view. So has anyone had to deal with such a man? How did you cope? What did you do to speed things along? I too have a Virgo moon with Venus in Taurus. I'm also a fire sign with my sun in Aries.

• Answer:

  You have a fire sign sun, a Virgo moon, Venus in a more-passive sign. He has a fire sign sun, a Virgo moon, Venus in a more-passive sign. Of course, you two have different charts ... but you can see that your fire sun motivates you to action, despite the more passive moon and venus signs. Barring a strong saturn influence in his chart, he should be able to motivate himself to take action, too. The curious thing about many men is that they can find a woman beautiful and amazing, and enjoy her company, but not take her into his heart. It is possible that the room in his heart is already filled by another woman. The fact that he tells you that you should come back to him if you'd like to ... he is telling you that you're welcome to spend time with him, but if you leave, it's no big deal. This means that as long as you keep on coming back he knows he's the one with the control. I think this will continue to be infuriating, and over the long term will undermine your self-esteem. Stop making excuses for him. Back off the let the ball be in his court for a change. Because the way things are now, you'll be hanging on the edge for forever. Better to find out where you stand ... I suspect you already know (we usually do).