How to sedate my dog?

My dad is so evil and vindictive he lied all this time he wanted our dog dead how can i forgive him! 10pts?

• To cut a long story short my dog bit someone my dog is a 10 months old staffordshire terrier and bit someone. Now to everyone saying o my god keep your opinions to yourself because my brother let him of the leash and somehow he nipped someone i wasnt there. Since then the police took him into custody to evaluate the situation. Meanwhile my dad told us the dog was coming back then he changed his tune and said the police were not giving the dog back however this was a big lie because the police said he could pick it up which he didn't. He said he wanted to get rid of the dog for many reasons but when we gave him justifyble reasons he changed his story. For example he said that we dont look after him whereas thats a lie because the 4 of us do im 15 and my 3 brothers. Then he changed his story he said that my brother who is 18 should find a home for it! He said the person who takes ownership of the dog has to go to court for it. We were all crying and sad and my dad didnt care at all he just acted as if nothing happened eventhough he took away our pride and joy. My mum realising how much it would affect us if the dog did truely get taken stepped in and said fine ill take ownership and it will live with me so the kids can still have it she had a dog when she was younger who died and she said she never ever got over it and doesnt want us to feel the same way about our dog. Now my dad refused and said no eventhough this is what he wanted all along to give the dog away. Now to the other part all the stuff above is what he told us about the dog nipping someone and about him saying it would come back and then saying we have to find a new home for it. My sister who lives with my mum shes 21 phoned the police to see what happening with the dog and she uncovered the fact that all the stuff he said was all LIES! Infact he had signed papers and FORGED my older brothers signiture in relation to having the dog killed. He lied to us and said it was coming back and we have to find it a new home when all along he had already signed papers for them to kill it. The police men phoned him to clariffy his stance on the situation with the dog and as quoted he said "Yh whatever get rid of it". Him and my older brother are recorded as part owners to the police eventhough it is my 18 year old brothers dog without his consent the dog would have to come back so he forged it and lied to us. For all he known the dog was dead and he still carried on lieing saying it was going to a new home. This happened two weeks ago so for 2 weeks he was lieing. My mum and sis phoned the police and were crying that he my dad told us he was alive and well. Our dog was on the euthanized waiting list for 2 weeks so he could have been killed at any time and my dad knew this. He was supposed to be killed today and we didnt even get to say good bye. Apparently my sister said to me that my dad has changed his mind and the dog is coming back i dont know why though. I think its because my mum knows about the forgery he commited if she tells the police then he will get in ALOT of trouble so he changed his mind. Btw my dad doesnt know i know all of this info no one does! So all that time even if my brother had found him a home he was already dead in his books because he thought he was dead but still aloud us to believe theres a possibility of him coming back. Now my dilemma is i should be overjoyed and be like dad i love you for doing this i am happy about the dog coming home but how can i forgive my dad i mean. What he did is terrible i cant even look at him its so so evil what he did i mean before my sis told me this i kind of hated him then for getting rid of it for no valuable reason but now after uncovering all of the behind the scenes info of what he did i hate him even more i mean how could he do this its so evil even if the dog comes back i cant forgive him because the only reason would be because he wanted to cover his tracks and didnt want to get in trouble. I was told all of this today and to think today when i was in a pissy mood because of the dog he asked me whats the matter and i was thinking your asking me what the FCUK is the matter you got rid of the dog and this was before i knew all the background info! So what should i do please help if you need more info just ask! AND TO ALL WHO SEE THIS QUESTION BUT ARE PUT OF BY THE LENGTH OF IT PLEASE READ IT, IT WILL BE A GREAT HELP AND IS HEARTBREAKING PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

• Answer:

  Keep your mouth shut. You know what he tried to do & that he didn't get away with it. Don't tell any of your other siblings about it or confront your dad. When/if the dog comes back, thank your dad, but don't kiss his butt and act like he's some big hero, because he isn't. Get your education so you can get a good job when you graduate. When you become an adult, remember how it felt to be powerless and not respected. Remember how it felt when your dad lied. Make sure you don't treat your children or other people that way. ((hugs)) Can you please post an update later and let me know if your dog got home ok?