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How do you know if he wants to be more than just friends?

How do you know when a guy just wants 'friends with benefits'?

  • there's this guy that i'm really into and the other night we hung out well i initiated all the flirting because he wasn't. i guess he was being respectful since we are still getting to know eachother. but at the end of the night we kised =] i'm just not sure if i'm another girl to him or if he likes me. help??

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    get to know the guy better, actions begin to change once you two get to know each other better. pay attention to what he has to say because when they say they're looking for a friend they really mean they're not into you and just want to have fun. good book to read is "he's just not that into you" by the writters of sex in the city

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unless the guy didnt really initiate the convo. i think he probably wants a friend with benefits. at first, but maybe he will change his mind when u know more about him

Big Boss

You never see the sun whne you go out, if you go out, and you never meet his friends and family.

Different Carlton W.

It was a kiss. Dont read too much into it.

Cragar

When I read your question I thought it was way more than just a kiss. If he is being respectful I don't think he wants a friend with benefits. Take it slow and don't read too much into things like someone else said. We girls tend to do that, over analyze things and read way too much into it. If you initiated the flirting and he didn't try anything until the end of the night then he more than likely isn't looking for a one time thing.

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jay

did you kiss him or did he kiss you? well maybe he was scared of being flurtacious with you. If he is for real and he likes you, he will stay in close touch with you. if you are just another girls, he wont bother with you as much.

greenrocket04

did he call u after that? did he mention that? u can always ask him straight to the point... and tell him what u think...

brainteaser

since he kissed you he likes you!

~*ChloeAnna*~

I'm sure if he wanted friends with benefits he would've let you know first off and would've been trying to have sex with you. But since he seemed shy, he was probably just unsure of what to say, didn't want to act like an idiot. Just hang out with him more and see how his attitude changes towards thing. If he just wants to be friends with benefits, you'll know.

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