How do you flirt with a nice guy?

How can a guy flirt and stop when you flirt back, did I do something wrong?

• met a guy in my club who I thought had a mutual attraction from the start, but he ended up asking my friend out who lead him on. Later in the year we started chatting on line and somehow it got sexual...he talked too about how he wanted a g/f, but I was afraid he just wanted me as a g/f for sex, so told him I wasn't looking to date at the time...also, he never seemed interested enough in ME, like not asking those "deep, probing questions" people say guys ask if they like you, so I assume he doesn't. Yet, now we living in the same house and he had a g/f, but they recently broke up cuz she didn't spend enough time with him and I'm knowing him better---he actually seems sweet and decent... he always stares at me, makes jokes and looks to see if i laugh, talk to me directly even when talking to the group, gave me compliments, touch my arm/back, smile at me, and got me aspirin and water when i felt sick..i thought i should flirt a bit more to show him i AM now interested in pursuing a r/s, BUT NOW he's being less attentive...he won't look at me as he did b/f, or talk to me personally, or touch me (when i gave him hugs last night during a game he didn't seem like he wanted it)...i notice he flirts like this i guess with girls in general b/c that's his personality, so that could be it. Why this behavior? also, when i would try to ask him qs, or talk, he didn't seem to care (he would answer but not hold the convo) and won't ask me qs!

• Answer:

  maybe he thought u werent interested or u didnt show enough of it....or maybe he just found another girl...or hes not interested in dating right now since he barely broke up.