How Long Is Too Long To Wait For a Guy to Call Me Back After The First Date?
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So I went out with this guy recently. We met online and have been texting each other for some time and we've chatted on the phone as well. In that time he has told me several times that he "really likes me" This this past weekend we finally met up for our date and I had a fantastic time. I sort of got the feeling that he did as well. We pretty much held hands and snuggled for the last hour of our date. It just felt right. Anyway during that time we even talked about our second date as he gingerly placed kisses on my forehead and gently stroked my cheek (it was all really sweet) So we end the night holding hands on our way to the subway and he tries to kiss me but I told him that I don't kiss on the first date. He said okay and sort of walked away. I don't know if this made him feel rejected but I fully expected to hear back from him. Four days have passed and I haven't gotten so much as a phone call, text message, or smoke signal. It's killing me, the not knowing. I know some of you will encourage me to text him and while I am not old fashion I truly believe that if a guy likes you then he will make the effort. Ordinarily I would wait 3 days and then dismiss this as a lost cause but I whole heartedly believe that he was being genunine when expressing how much he like me. If 7 days have come and gone since our date I suppose it is time to move on. I know I should not dwell over it but I really felt a connection to this man. How long is too long to wait? Is it true that the longer he takes to call (if he calls at all) is a direct reflection of just how much interest he has in me?
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Answer:
i think you've made him feel abit out of place with it,you should text him and tell him that you didn't mean anything or just god damn call the man.
kgirl at Yahoo! Answers Visit the source
Other answers
And why does HE have to call YOU back? Do you want him or not? Girls aren't the only ones that are insecure about whether they're wanted. Ever since the 70s I've heard that equality gives women the right to ask guys out. But ask them if they ever would---NOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Get over it. What you're really saying is that he isn't worth the effort. Fine. Somebody smarter and bolder will get him and you can go fish.
Fizzle
Me... I have to see the guy the next day, if I don't see him with in the week something is up.
Sarah
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