Please Help me! I NEED help! I dont know which guy to choose! Im BEGGING! PLEASE HELP!?
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My boyfriend Mike broke up with me last week mbecause he was jealous of my best frriend who says he is in love with me, his name is Ryan. Ryan asks me out four or five times a day... I have never said yes because I dont feel that way about him. I told Mike this amillion times! He never believed me. especially because there are these six or seven guys who used to be friends with Mike that are constantly hitting on me. I hang out with some of them sometimes....but i have no romantic feelings towards any of them. The problem is, Mike apologized and wants to get back together with me, but I have begun developing a little crush on Ryan, I have NO idea what to do, becasue....let's face it, it's not a tiny crrush, I have a HUGE crush on both of them, both said they love me, and they are always REALLY sweet and cute....Like on my 13th birthday, four months ago, (right after Ryan and I broke up) Ryan gave me a huge purple(my fav color) teddy bear, and a really pretty gold charm bracelate with four charms, each held a special memory. And Mike is soo sweet and selfless....on his 14th birthday, last month, he gave ME a present that didnt even compare to mine...he gave me the most beautiful pair of ear rings I own and a gorgeous necklace that said M+S=♥ (S is the first initial of my first name, Sara)...All I got him was a lousy box of Belgium chocolates my dad got from Paris, and I bought him dinner from his favorite restaurant. Ryan constantly worries about me and texts me at least 100 times a day. Mike texts me really often too. They are both extremely jealous of my close guyfriends, and Ryan gets pissed when I hang out with other guys. Mike is always letting me know how amazing and beautiful I am, and Ryan always reminds me how awesome I am, Also, Ryan has gotten into four fist-fights with three other guys over me....he's been in the hospital once due to one of those fights, that one was with Mike, who also landed in the hospital because of the fight. Every time a guy gets into a fight over me, that is the ONLY time, and i mean the ONLY time i have ever cried in my life! Whenever I cry, they try to make me feel better whatever the circumstances. One day, I walked home from school with Mike and saw Ryan standing at my front door, I wasnt dating either of them at this point, and we went into my basement, and they sat next to each other on my couch, and told me to lay down across them both. My legs on Mike, and my head on Ryan. It was weird, but kinda fun....cuz we watched tv, and then I fell asleep. But i have NO idea who I should choose! PLEASE HELP! Who should I choose?
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Answer:
Pick who makes you happiest, and knows how to conduct himself properly in a committed relationship. Also, for future reference, if you're in a relationship, quit talking to guys that you know are interested in you. If another guy likes you, you should do your best to stay away from him -- not be texting him 100 times a day. Mike wouldn't have to be jealous if you'd quit texting other guys. I mean, its okay to have guy friends, but you know this guy likes you...why the hell do you talk to him? Do you like leading him on? Do you like making Mike jealous? Imagine if some girl texted Mike 100 times a day and bought him jewelry and presents. Its messed up. Quit talking to other guys. Its your fault you're in this situation.
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Other answers
13 yo? LOL!!!!!!! Choose none, they just want sex. You don't need a boyfriend at this age.
Lord Krishna
Go for who ever you have more strong feelings for or don't date either .
Manda
neither. you are too young, and won't wind up with either of them anyways.
Jacquie
I would choose Ryan... Mike didn't trust u even though u said nothing was going on.
Julia
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