Why Are Some People So Controlling In Relationships?

Ten reasons why I give up on relationships.?

• I'm truthfully asking this to see if any of you will do the whole "slap on the hand" answer or saying I'm acting irrationally. These are all based upon a relationship that's been on and off since mid winter of 2008. 1. She KNOWS I'll do anything for her, she knows I really love her and want to marry her. Instead she is willing to break up with me for the next drug addict that comes her way. Pretty much saying "f*ck off" then when they're finished she'll come back to me. 2. She says I know things when I actually don't about why she acts weird/sad. 3. She says I'm perfect to everyone even her friends and I've never done one bad thing, while when she's with me she picks at every small thing I do. 4. She's cheated (in sort-of-ways) on me. She ends up saying we're not going out during a time we're talking about getting back together or act like we are together but f*cks around with other guys. 5. She lets her ex with some stupid controlling ideal walk all over me. 6. Every time we talk about things that have happened in the past, she said she'll never do anything like my exes did to me. Instead she does worse, and says they shouldn't have hurt me like that and she hates anyone who hurts me. 7. She's scared to technically "go out" or "date" because of her parents, but was talking to the controlling ex (earlier mentioned) about getting back together. 8. She acts like she can control my every movement. 9. She only responds to hatefulness lovingly. 10. She never notices when I call her beautiful but puts acknowledgment in it when other people call her it. Always making me seem like I don't put her first. She's officially caused me to say "f*ck relationships". Forget "love", girls rather be with some dick or douche who'll leave them for someone else rather than the guy who actually cares. Tomorrow, I'm going to try nicely to speak to her about this. Most likely though... it's going to end and... well I give up on relationships.

• Answer:

  She's not the one. I'm sorry that she hurt you, but not all girls are like that. Please don't give up on relationships. Just because you had a bad girl as your girlfriend doesn't mean that there's a sweet loving girl out there that will love you just as much as you love her. Next time, be careful who you pick. Love is blind and can make you believe that you truly love someone. It happens to both males and females. Don't give up!