How do I make him notice me?

How to make a guy notice you?

  • How do I make this kid I like notice me?I'm in middle school... he is one of my BFF's brothers so I see him a lot.Yes my bff knows that I like him and she doesn't really care (she just is a little like "How the heck do you like him?!?!" Lol :)) So how do I make him notice me?10 pts best answer I will answer yours if you want me to...

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    There are some smart girls in here answering your question! Many girls will tell you to wear something or play with your hair, but these girls today all have good advice. Notice how most answers said "talk to him"? Those people either are guys or have actually met a few guys! That's how to deal with any guy. We're very direct creatures, so forget all about flirting and hints. You can do that stuff just for fun if you want, but don't ever try to make it work because it's impossible. I'm a guy, and I assure you that we simply don't speak subtle. We don't get hidden meanings either, and we certainly never use them. When a guy says "you have nice hair" and you ask him what he means, he'll look at you like you're crazy. That's because he only said four words, and somehow you didn't understand them! While we are dense, we're not completely dense. There are some things we do understand, and here they are. SMILES: Self explanatory. Just use a normal friendly smile. EYE CONTACT: Also self explanatory. You have pretty eyes, so use them. TALKING: And remember to be direct. No hidden meanings. And finally... TOUCHING: This is the big-big-big one, so use it with care. I mean just innocent touching, because that's all you need. Unless sports or open combat is involved, we never touch each other. It's forbidden in fact. So when you touch us, we notice big time. And we like it a whole lot. And finally, watch his eyes. Eyes never lie. If you say "can I tell you something" and his eyes light up, that will tell you more than his body language ever will. I would wish you luck, but now you don't need any.

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Always make eye contact, in a non stalkerish way. When you're walking down the hall and he's coming in your direction, make eye contact and smile or smirk! He'll definately remember. So the next time you guys run into eachother, he'll remember that one look and that's how it starts! Now if you've been yourself, been confident and he still doesn't notice you, then move on. He's a wuss or he's not interested.

MoMo215

Talk to him more! Strike up a conversation and be nice. Try to get his attention, maybe have your friends talk to him? Smile, but don't change yourself. Make a confession one day, and if he does not like you, it's a shame. So be yourself, laugh a lot, have fun, and talk a lot. And maybe answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtmY9.dOsRHH7sSQvQL_NM0azKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20120405154530AAYxDfS

Teen Girl

It is really awkward if your sisters best friend likes you. I'll just put it like that. What happens if you break up? I'm not trying to be mean or anything but he would still see you every so often, and that would put a lot of tension on his sister. After awhile he would treat you just as any member of the family if you hang out near him a lot. So there isn't much you can do unless he clearly likes you back. My advice would be to see if you can spend any time alone with him possibly? I really don't know how to go about doing this, it really depends if he is older or younger. Whatever happens, Good luck

Is he the same age as you? if you really like him then act flirty but not too flirty at first because you don`t want to scare him away . And some ways that you can get him to notice you are wearing really cute clothes which i`m sure you do :) and maybe try doing your hair differently somedays if you want like a fish tail braid. For me i wanted the guy i like to notice me so i started to dress super cute more cute then usual and i changed my hairstyle to reallycute things like a fishtail braid. And he then started to figure out that I like him and he noticed me. my best advice is go with what you feel is the best way. as long as your comfortable and confident in choosing what your going to do to make him notice you then just follow your gut instinct. He will notice you soon because you seem like a really nice girl who deserves a good guy. hope this helps :)

Well it depends on the guy but just try and hit it off with him! having a good convo is a good way to start so just find something you guys can talk about that you both have in common. Then make some jokes and just be bold and brave:) good luck!

Katie

Seriously, how old are you? You seem like 12, shouldn't you have other things to worry about? My advice is to give him a *******. **** him off, be his slut! Then he'll deffo like you. Oh. Use a condom.

James Ryder

Be funny, don't act dumb and ditzy around him because guys honestly think that's annoying. They like smart girls. If he doesn't talk to you, talk to him. Oh and how much of an age difference are you both?

Fotini

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