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How can i tell her how i feel/how can i find out how she feels?

• She's really hard for me to read. sometimes she can be playful, other times she's quite or seems uninterested. I really like her tho and im falling for her HARD. i like everything about her and she's soooo much fun to be around and just talk to. we've hungout like 4 times (i know thats not long at all but its hard for her because she's either busy with school or sports) i've met her family and they all seemed to like me. But i just wonder how she feels, how can i find out? i know flirting and all but idk why its harder for me when i try to with her. is there something else i can try to do or bring up with her in a conversation to find out? And what would a good way be to tell her how i feel? i've thought about being up front and just like going all out but if i did that and she doesnt take it well everything will be messed up and nothing will be the same between us. im not sure what to do and its on my mind constantly, last time we hungout i dropped a few hints by saying how much fun i have when im with her and how it doesn't matter what we do as long as im with you. when she dropped me off she told me she would be busy this weekend but will be back next weekend and then smiled. i took that as kind've a hint and i smiled back saying looking forward to it. So im wondering what would be the best way to find out how she feels about me, AND what would be the best way to tell her how i feel? Thanks

• Answer:

  Don't tell her how you feel, not yet. OMG this is super weird but that sounds like me except I don't play sports. The guy who likes me, we only hung out like twice alone and a couple times with friends and that's it. I'm going to give it to you from the perspective of being the other girl. So he likes me and I know it. I act dense about it even though I'm playful with him. I'm playful with him because I actually find it nice that he likes me, even though I may not feel the same way. Now I act dense because I don't want to hurt him and I'm not sure about how I feel myself. Sometimes girls take a while to know how they feel.She probably smiled out of being polite so just take it slow with her. You need to win her over, or woo her as the term may be. Show her how awesome of a guy you are. I only now ended up liking that guy I was talking about and the reason is idiotic. I ended up texting him because I missed hanging out with him, I guess he made me feel good about myself. He never texted and he didn't pick up his phone. I was so pissed at him and at the same time I was thinking how sad it'd be that he hated me or something and it just turns out that he never checks his phone. He can be really bad with technology. What you need to do is make her fall for you and it takes more than just hanging out 4 times. Maybe study together and call at least once a week. When you notice her trying to find time to hang out with you than maybe you just got yourself something there. She's super busy and that's hard. I am also super busy, too be honest I don't think I could date the guy I like if I'm busy. He'd probably have to wait until I'm not as busy or something no matter who he is my education is extremely important. Now than if you do want to have the courage to say anything I'd take it nice and slow. Don't go straight at her and tell her you like her. Give her more hints, wait for her to want to be with you as well. Maybe call every week or talk and text or something and see after a while of not hanging out will she end up voicing her want to hang out with you (that would be a good indicator). Anyways good luck!!!!!