How long should I wait before I call?

How long should I wait before I call my girlfriend?

  • I admitted to my wife that I've been with this other girl for the past fifteen months in the hope that we can start the healing process. I'm thinking this will be like a marital bankruptcy declaration. I think with time I can get her to trust me again, as I've learned from my mistakes and I'll never try to get away with as many "business trips" as I did before, and I'll make sure to call her all the time from Lindsay's (my GF) apartment to reassure her that I love her and that nothing will come between us anymore and we are entering a new era of honesty and trust. I'll also try my best to have sex with her, I even procured some viagra so I can go that extra mile I wasn't able to do because I spent myself on Lindsay every day. I told Lindsay that she would have to wait on me for a time while I got my wife back in line and she understood completely. She's very understanding of my troubles and is max supportive of me in my efforts to fix my wife problem. She does want to get an idea of how long she's going to have to be without me, though. I really care about her and I don't want to leave her on the edge too long. So, how long do you think it will take for me to get the wife back in order and behaving properly so I can call poor Lindsay back? I really appreciate your helpful answers on this, and I thank everyone in advance for their advice. Much love to all. : )

  • Answer:

    Well now that I've seen all this, I have no idea just how long it'll take you to get back with your wife, but you're not allowed to call me anymore. You told me that I was THE most important and now I have to hear about Lindsay and YOUR WIFE. I'm done. Bring back my high heels tomorrow. And you should definitely honor your vowels dammit!

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You are nothing but a lowlife cheat! How could you do that to your poor sweet girlfriend? You need to set your priorties straight. Girlfriend always comes FIRST. Edit: Vowels?? Vow + Bowels? Interesting.

YooHoo

My advice is: Bring a third party into the equation REZ. That should speed up the healing process. (Or would that be a fourth party?..)

PropReno

It's not often one sees such maturity and connsideration being shown, in dealing with a delicate matter like this. You have thoughtfully put both of your ladies before your own needs and wants, (even though, i gather one of them is a bit of a moose) and this shows a wisdom, and generosity of spirit that will win you the day, every time! Well done, you deserve everything you get!

BadBeast is pretending to be a

What kind of relationships are these Rez? You should be shot. full stop.

Mulan

Just give me five more minutes with her, and then you can call her.

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ol white biker

dude...your married. You either cut it off with lindsay and honor your vowels or get a divorce. You dont make any sense...how do you want your wife to trust you if your gonna be cheating on her again. If you need viagra to make love to your wife...cause lindsay comes first. Maybe you need to just leave your wife instead of hurting her...she could do better...would you be ok if your wife had another man on the side?

Jozet

Really, I find this whole casual attitude about marital relationships to be utterly disgusting. Once you marry someone, you're STUCK. Get used to it. Stop looking for greener grass elsewhere.

Wow, you are an asshole. How can you do that to your wife ? And you still want to continue this relationship with your girlfriend when you are married ???

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