Can a nineteen year old girl get a chance in the Aupair?

Do you think I can get another chance with the girl I love ? Read the details please?

• Hi everyone. By the way, we in middle school, going to high school next year. I am really close and nice to this girl. This girl showed me true love, not some stuff with how good your looks are or whatever. I'm in love with her personality. This girl really likes me and I really like her, so I took her to the prom. At the end I kissed her on the lips and later that night I posted pictures of us (not kissing) on Facebook with her permission. Two days later, she told me I had to remove the pictures, because of her parents, so I did so. Then she told me to give her some space, so I did. The next day she didn't even talk to me. About a month ago, she told me that she didn't want a relationship over the summer. Then she finally texts me later on. She told me that, she didn't talk to me, because I got obsessive about her, became a kind of stalker, and clingy to her. Then she said her parents found the photos and were really pissed off. And finally, she told me that people won't shut up about us and that there were rumors of us going out, which we were going to do. She also told me that when we first kissed, she didn't feel anything. But to be honest, when she kissed me, all my memories came back to me about us and the good moments we had, so all the focus went there and I didn't really fully go for the kiss I wanted. I guess my body was on some sort of autopilot or something. I wanted to show her how much I loved her. I guess I was love drunk, or lovestruck... I don't know how to explain. By the way, she was the first girl I actually cared about and liked and also it was our first kiss on the lips. We never kissed anyone on the lips yet so I guess we never got our first kiss. After she explained everything, we made up but she considers me as a friend right now. Its been a week now, and for the past week, she was on my mind 24/7 and I can't stop thinking about her. I really want a second chance to love her, but I don't know what will happen. Her parents are strict about boys, but we always sneak our relationship. By the way, everyone thinks we are a good couple, because we are both from the Philippines but born and raised her in the United States, and we have the same feelings, we help each other out and we have so much in common. I was acting all obsessive, because well I guess love will do that to you, and she is the first girl I actually cared so much and liked in my life. We'll this is what I was going to tell her. (on the phone, because we don't have time to meet up anytime soon, except school or when and where should I tell her ?) Hey, I was thinking this whole week about that kiss last Saturday and to be honest, I was lovestruck or love drunk. When you kissed me, all my memories about us came back to me, and my body felt like it was in auto mode, because to be honest, you are the first girl I actually admired truly instead of just looks or whatever. I love your personality. Well all I'm trying to say is that I wanted to ask you if I can get another chance to love. I promise I won't be obsessive with you, I won't be a stalker, and I will not be as clingy, but whatever happens I will always care about you. I'll make it up to you, I'll do whatever you want me to do, and if it's not enough, I'll try again and over and over again. Is that something good to say? Can you help me with what I should say to her to convince her to give me another chance to love ? Should I improve on what I should say? Do you think she will give me another chance ? Please help me.

• Answer:

  hi here's my very best advice for you:) seems like you are really close to this nice girl that has showed you true love you both really like each other you took her to the prom and at the end you kissed her on the lips then later that night you posted pictures of each other not kissing on facebook with her permission then two days later she said you had to remove them because her parents did not approve and you did then she asked for some space and you did the next day she didnt talk to you and later on when she did she said reason why she didn't want to speak is because you was being obsessive about her,became a stalker,and clingy to her she said her parents were mad about the pictures on facebook and she said people wont stop talking about (each other)there were rumors about each other going out which you both were going to do so she also said when you both first kissed she did not feel anything but you did and still do here's my very best advice i say the very best thing to do is have a talk with her in person maybe see if she will go for a walk or somewhere private and just be completely honest with her tell her how you really truly do feel about her i can already tell that you truly have allot heart in you no matter what happens what she may think you were honest and open with her and you respect her wishes if she rather stay as friends then that's the best you may can have trust me if she did/does feel anything for you she will be open with you while you are with her that's part of a great hearted relationship just follow your heart be honest and let her know you truly do care i wish you the very best of luck and great fun summer greetings:)