How can i make block to contact?

My wife has fled to South Africa with my two sons and she is keeping them from having any contact with me?

• We were officially from Tanzania but we have been living in the USA for almost 10 years now. as the years have progressed we did not have a good steady relationship between ourselves, with her accusing me of things, lying and our arguments and so on. we could not stay together like this. One year ago, she left out of the usa with my sons ages 12 and 15 years old. I have tried to make deal with her as I wanted to keep my oldest son with me and she take our youngest, so we can split the kids. She disagreed and stated that she wanted to take both of them and that our sons should not be split apart from each other but that they will come back to visit me during their summer and winter vacations. it has been a year already that she has been gone, we both agreed that I would still be able to stay in contact with my sons by phone or mail, but I have not been able to speak to my sons for 7 months now. during the first few months they were gone everything was going fine and i was speaking to my sons. We had agreed that I would get the boys in june through august and december through january. When I called in june and I spoke to my oldest son and he told me that he and his brother were excited and they could not wait to see me again, as they were supposed to come back to me in June that month. I told him to speak to their mother about it and remind her so that she can be aware that it was june already and that they should be coming back to me in a few weeks from there. Everysince then I have not heard from any of them. We are a family as I am still married to her. I feel she is not wanting me to see them or have any contact with them, so she isin't allowing them to speak to me. My sons and I are very close and they would usually be calling me very often atleast few times out of the week every week, so I know they would not just discontinue speaking to me all of a sudden. I know my wife is the reason because this, she did not want to be family with me, now she is taking my sons away from me. I refuse to let her block contact away from my sons, and I know that is just what she is trying to do. I have been trying to reach her and there has been no answer. I am now starting to think that she is not even in south africa anymore, or that she wasnt there in the first place and it could have been a lie. Even though she and I are not together anymore, I should still have a right to beable see my sons am I right? Legally here in the US we are still married, and I do know that parents can go to court over the children, but only problem is she is not in the states, so I would not know what to do I do know one thing, if I am able to find contact with her again... I am comming for my sons reguardless of what she has to say and I am taking both of them back. I am feeling stress because 7 months and no contact with them, I want to know what happened to my sons and where they are at.

• Answer:

  Are you supporting her financially? If yes, stop it and she will contact you right away.