How can I study at a university in Japan?

Should i continue my study at Japan's university after highschool,can you share your experiences?

• I plan to enroll to an Japanese university after I finish highschool , that's what i really desire to do when i was little . However,some of my family's friends said "Why,Japan is nothing but expensive and danger,their people look do some crazy actions,etc...." it's really annoying me ,i dont know what to do. I have heard some of my family's friends told me about their working experiences with Japanese people ( but they work for japanese in my country) that FEMALE never be respected O.o , please give me some advices....

• Answer:

  no need to ask twice