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What would you do if your significant other and his father wanted to take a 3-week trip to Japan?

  • My significant other (we are dating 3+ years, living together, not married, no kids) and his father want to take a father-son trip to Japan for 3 weeks, traveling to all different places (Pattaya and Bangkok have been mentioned a lot) His father does this all the time. He is retired. He is still married to my significant others Mom. On these trips he does not ever take his wife, and he stays for 2-3months. This is with little to no communication to his wife. It is a family known thing (but not confirmed) that his father goes over there to cheat on his wife with other woman. Infact, he frequently sends emails to my significant other with provokative and graphic pictures/website/ everything that you can do in another country. His father does not think very kindly of me, and has been encouraging his son to see the other fish in the sea. I have worries about this trip for these reasons, but do not feel that I can request that my significant other do not go. He knows my feelings on the subject matter, but he does not want to let down his father and claims he will be faithful and not take part in any such activites. He has always shown interest in going there. How would you handle this situation?

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    Let him go. If he cheats on you, dump him. You don't have much of a choice here. You've already told him how you feel. That's basically all you can do for now. Maybe tell him to call you a few times a week to let you know how things are going?

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This is not really a Japan travel question more than it is a relationship question. Japan is no different from your hometown in the sense that he can cheat and do whatever he wants. I think the answer is within you. Do you need this in your life? Do you need that man to carry on with your life? Is he already cheating on you now? Going away makes it easier, but cheaters will cheat when they want to. You have the power, you are not married and you have no children together. Walk away if he gets on that airplane.

wuzaracer

Wow that sucks... I'd definitely be worried because it sounds like he will be encouraged to cheat.. I think it depends on how much you trust him.. I think only you can answer that.

If I didnt trust him Id leave him

cupidgirl

Just try and sort things out with him in person to person u know? i mean it wont hurt to ask him if he can take the whole family with u doesnt it? If ur father is just like that then...i think theres gonna be a lil problem going on...no offense >.>

Vincent K

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