How do i dress gothic lolita?

Choosing a Japanese gothic lolita dress?

• I'm a boy, and I'm thinking of dressing in japanese 'gothic lolita' style for an upcoming costume party. Which dress do you think I should go for? Pick out a wig and some accessories too! dresses: http://www.milanoo.com/wholesale-Lolita-Dresses-c635 wigs: http://www.milanoo.com/search/textfield-wig+women.html Alternatively, if you can suggest a gothic or lolita outfit from another site, or a different costume altogether, I'll be happy to consider it.

• Answer:

  Whatever you do, please, do not order from Milanoo. I know that there is going to be someone else posting an answer otherwise, but trust me and a whole lot of unsatisfied customers who've bought from them: Reviews, including other shops you ought to avoid: http://community.livejournal.com/egl/14484905.html Here are some places where you can buy lolita items. I will post a source about wigs below http://lolita-handbook.livejournal.com/2466.html http://community.livejournal.com/egl/15204857.html All you need to know about wigs: http://www.livejournal.com/tools/memories.bml?user=egl&keyword=Hair+%26+Wigs+%26+Beauty&filter=all I suggest reading a bit more in the lolita handbook about how to put together outfits. After all, a lolita outfit cannot just be complete by the dress alone! And since you're a guy, you may want to consider trying to look as feminine as possible rather than go for the guy-in-a-dress joke or for the drag-queen look....unless that is what you're aiming for. If this is your first time cross dressing, I suggest leafing throught this site for more info http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/ And if you're a tall person: http://fyeahlolita.blogspot.com/2009/07/im-tall-girl-and-so-i-am-obviously-tall.html I know that most guys aren't busty as their female counterparts, so if you're ready to go shopping, and want to give than illusion have having a fuller chest, look for tops that have a lot of detail around the neckline, like this: http://media.photobucket.com/image/btssb%20cutsew/appaj00ce/Sales/DSC00554.jpg%5C P.S: I know that the lolita can be a little out there, but it's not a costume - lolita fashion is a fashion since it is meant to be worn pretty often and isn't mean to be worn to portray characters. I don't know many people who go out in their Spiderman suit to go shopping for groceries XD